diana
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I posted on here awhile back about my abusive ex-husband. Things are getting worse. My attorney sent him a letter telling him to follow the visitation schedule and to stop being argumentative. He flipped out! He emailed me asking for everything from school addresses, to my relatives cell phone numbers, to shot records, old report cards, doctor's addresses, etc. He knows all of these things. I sent him some of it. But, I refused to send him my babysitter's address since she babysits at my house! He drove up here the other day, honking loudly, with Ozzie Osbourne music screaming out of his car windows. My kids were afraid to go with him! I have given him everything under the sun, but I am only following our decree at this point because he is being so uncooperative. I emailed him and told him about 3 days that I would be a few minutes late getting home because of having to take my babysitter home, and he says if I am not here he will call the police! I am in a graduate class this month and I can't be back in time! This is the first time I have ever told him I would be late. He is just being mean and spiteful, I know. But, I do not know what to do to put a stop to this. I really do not have the money for court and I'm not sure that would even do it. Is there any kind of court order, barring a restraining order which I will probably have to get anyway, that can put a stop to this? I think he is going to file for full custody, but I am not worried so much about that because I have documented his behavior, my son's psychologist knows about it first hand, and he bowed out of 6 weeks visitation and several other times recently because he couldn't afford a babysitter. Help!
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Gecko
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Reged: 06/01/04
Posts: 19893
Loc: Third rock from the sun
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If you aren't going listen, then why should I, or anyone, continue to help you? All you are doing is wasting our time. I'm not trying to be mean here, but you seriously need to WAKE UP!
I don't care what else you have planned for tomorrow, but you get your ass down to the courthouse and you file for a restraining order. He is NOT allowed to call you, to write to you or to email you...and if he does, you call the police and file charges!
ALL communication will be through your attorney from now on. Yeah, it's going to cost you some money, but peace of mind doesn't always come cheap.
When you get your restaining order, all future exchanges will take place at the police station. You need to quit making excuses for him.
Big freaking deal if he calls the police...they aren't going to do anything...it's a "civil matter" and he's going to look pretty damn stupid if he pushes it into the courtroom.
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fireyredhead
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Reged: 07/13/04
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Go back to court and file a modification of the order and ask for him to be supervised. That should cool his jets
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