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Re: Court today...almost missed it. *DELETED* [Re: Sherron]
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Re: Court today...almost missed it. [Re: DedicatedDad]
      #767600 - 11/10/11 10:08 PM

""Do you believe it's possible that some CPs carry a much heavier part of the upbringing, and not just financially?

Of course, unless there is shared custody, most do."

Then I really don't understand your comments to me.

And... since you believe those who don't have shared custody, aka CPs, carry a much heavier part of the upbringing already... your comment about sending money to the ncp makes even less sense to me.


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Re: Court today...almost missed it. [Re: Sherron]
      #767601 - 11/10/11 10:11 PM

I'm not getting it either...

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Re: Court today...almost missed it. *DELETED* [Re: Redlegg]
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Re: Court today...almost missed it. [Re: DedicatedDad]
      #767604 - 11/10/11 10:33 PM

And?

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Re: Court today...almost missed it. *DELETED* [Re: youngatheart]
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Re: Court today...almost missed it. [Re: DedicatedDad]
      #767606 - 11/10/11 10:40 PM

"Like many NCP's, we end up subsidizing the CP's stuff....cars, houses, whatever, since they won't contribute."

How do CPs not contribute when you said yourself that unless there is shared custody, most carry a much heavier part of the upbringing, including financially?

$1200 into a kid's car... $100 to school lunches... $75 for a yearbook... sounds like that would be for the kids... not the CP.


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Re: Court today...almost missed it. [Re: DedicatedDad]
      #767607 - 11/10/11 10:49 PM

While that's sometimes the case, it's not the vast majority of the cases.

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Re: Court today...almost missed it. *DELETED* [Re: Sherron]
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Re: Court today...almost missed it. [Re: DedicatedDad]
      #767609 - 11/10/11 10:56 PM

"Aren't those expenses typically paid by the CP or shared? They are not court ordered for either to pay"
I guess some people don't need court orders to take care of their kids.

"but their household income including the child support transfer is 5 times mine."
If your household income is 1/5 mine, I feel bad for you.

"I didn't say the CP's carry a heavier load financially. I find that after support and tax implications, they often pay less."
Actually, you said most CPs do carry a heavier load, not just financially, unless there is shared custody.


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