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bkj5138
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My abusive husband
      #774646 - 01/17/12 10:32 AM

This is what my home life is like:

[censored]://[censored].youtube.com/watch?v=HhF8cYK2HhA


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Re: My abusive husband [Re: bkj5138]
      #774760 - 01/18/12 11:31 AM

I am not sure that the audio does much. It is one sided and appears edited, perhaps heavily. Where are the responsive comments? It is incomplete and out of context without complete audio.

Second, the reasons for posting it are somewhat fuzzy. Is it to vilify the other parent? Embarrass them? If so, it is probably a poor motive and not one that is beneficial to children involved. If there are parenting issues, such recordings are best reserved for court use in their entirety. Posting in a public forum can be very bad idea that could backfire in Court.


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Re: My abusive husband [Re: Maury]
      #774794 - 01/18/12 07:49 PM

Thanks for your reply. The audio is definitely edited, and I guess very biased. I cut out my voice because it is very distinctive, and I changed his voice so that it would be anonymous. I don't think even his closest friend would recognize it, because no one outside our home has ever heard him raging like that. Very Jekyll/Hyde. To be honest, I don't know why I finally posted this. I feel like I'm going crazy because everyone thinks he is the most wonderful person in the world, and I've always blamed myself in the past. I guess I'm hoping other people with similar situations might be able to give some advice. I don't want to go to court unless absolutely necessary. Thanks.

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Re: My abusive husband [Re: bkj5138]
      #775532 - 01/25/12 03:54 PM

So as long as he pays all the bills, you didn't mind, but now that you might have to work and pay for yourself, you want out ?
Is that the situation ?

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Re: My abusive husband [Re: yregna]
      #776316 - 01/30/12 02:26 PM

I'm not sure what this has to do with it, but I work, and I actually make more money than he does.

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