MrsB
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Ok, enough is enough.
I will no longer feel the need to right any wrongs that the trolls post. 10% of what they have posted is from the online site, 90% is made up lies. Whoever wants to believe those lies - really isn't my problem. I have already stated (multiple times) that I take full responsibility for having shared that info (even if privately) in the first place.
My son is happy and healthy. I have sole custody of one smart, compassionate, amazing child - a great job I love, wonderful people in my life and it doesn't matter what is or isn't said or lied about - that will not change.
I will continue to post as I please - but I will no longer give this nonsense or the trolls the time of day.
Hope everyone has an awesome day :)
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onerose
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I will continue to post as I please - but I will no longer give this nonsense or the trolls the time of day.
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Hopefully everyone else will do the same!! Have a great day!
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Loretta
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Good for you JL, those of us who care about you and your son don't believe it anyway. You have as much right to be here as any of us. Your experience could be value to a person who's going through a tough time.
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M5M5
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Good for you! Proud of you! =)
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cutiepie
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Then stop saying and or posting that your ex is the troll that is posting on this site. A couple of days ago, you pointed fingures at a group of other people. Were you embarrased today?
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cutiepie
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(I have sole custody):
Looks like you ran out of time to correct that lie. When are you going to finally tell the truth? You share custody. Big Big Big belly laugh on that above statement. Just because you type it, doesn't make it true or fact. But thank you for yet another reason to prove you are not "just right."
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Debi
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I have stayed out of all the crap because frankly I have enough in my real life. We have PM'd in the past (although not for a long time in case anyone is keeping track). I have given you my honest opinions some of which are shared by others. (Like the fact that you gave out too much info and were too trusting). I even warned you to be careful of who you trusted.
We PM'd before you were ever divorced not only about your life but mine.
My opinion of you is that you have a good heart and you got smashed on this board. You trusted too many people with too many personal things. Have you lied about things? I don't know because frankly I don't keep track of everything that people post. If you did? I don't really care. I do know that you knew a lot about me in the past which was never shared with anyone. Or at least no one ever told me you talked about me behind my back, and given the crowd here I'm sure I'd have been warned.
Please please please just be careful who you trust. Not only on a message board but in real life. No one deserves to be hurt for being too open. You're right people who know you are the only ones who matter and lets face it, people posting on a message board don't know you. they can say they "know" you off the board because they are FB friends or have spoken to you on the phone, but they don't. It stinks that you can't even share positive things because they will be used against you but that's reality.Be careful who you let in your life JL. You deserve better. Everyone does.
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When we were together, you said you'd die for me. Now, I think it's time you kept your promise.
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MrsB
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Thank you debi for your input :). I have always had a ton of respect for you. And yes, you did warn me. I wish I would have listened to you and others who warned me about getting too close to certain people here. You all earn the right to say "I told you so"!
I do hope this is a lesson for everyone else. I have always been too trusting of people, and naive. In most ways this has been a blessing for me - obviously not in all. I no longer trust people until they have earned it. It definitely taught me several lessons. However at the same time - I refuse to take a more negative stance on life because of what a few have done. I refuse to believe the majority of people are this way - the hard part is knowing who belongs in what category.
But absolutely - I agree with you. No one deserves this. It would just really be nice if everyone could let people be, and stop meddling in other people's business. For those here continue to put all of this on me - if the tables were turned, I know they would be singing a different tune. I suppose empathy isn't something we are all capable of...Those people are the ones who really need help - not me. I have a wonderful life surrounded by people I love, and who love me - if anything, I guess it's taught me that not all people have good intentions, not all people are real friends, and that there truly are some evil, negative, disturbing people closer than we think sometimes.
Take care Debi:)
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cutiepie
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(Have you lied about things? If you did? I don't really care.) That say a lot about YOU!
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cutiepie
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(I have a wonderful life surrounded by people I love, and who love me)
Minus your 1st and 2nd husband and the ex boss you sued for sexual harrasment, and lost.
What is the rule about returning wedding gifts when a marriage goes south after 14 months?
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spinnerdegrassi
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How come her 1st husband didn't return the wedding gifts after he cheated on his 1st wife after 3 weeks?
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Debi
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(Have you lied about things? If you did? I don't really care.) That say a lot about YOU!
I'd probably care if anything that was "lied" about affected me but if there was anything it doesn't.
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When we were together, you said you'd die for me. Now, I think it's time you kept your promise.
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Debi
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I don't want to tell you that I told you so. You thought you could trust the people you did and I'm sorry you couldn't. I mean who would really fathom that anonymous people on a message board would take such a vested interest in someone who has no bearing on their real life. I stopped posting anything too personal when I realized that there WERE peole who would use it to find out other things about me and when I realized it would be used against me. It never would have occured to me prior to watching it happen to others.
As I said, at one time we PM'd a lot. I am amazed at the people who looked or tried to look at personal info on you no matter how the original info originally got out. You never shared any of the court documents with me, I never tried to find anything out about them. Unfortunately all I could do was sit there and shake my head as the train wreck happened. :o(
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When we were together, you said you'd die for me. Now, I think it's time you kept your promise.
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