SweetLight
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She did not mention getting child support. She did say this: "he wants to get out of paying child support, which is strange because he filed first." Meaning she did not initiate anything, he did. So, who has the reading comprehension issue?
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gr8Dad
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Since, apparently, you COMPLETELY missed the point, I guess I will have to explain it to you.
Many times, we here custodial, or soon to be custodial parent state that the other parent ONLY files for custody to get out of paying child support. Using that logic, the OTHER parent would only be fighting to KEEP custody in order to KEEP getting child support, which, or course, they always deny.
Got it now, or do you need a MAP?
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SweetLight
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“So do you only want to be the custodial parent so you can GET child support?”
“Well, she wants child support, she has to share the parenting rights.”
----->Where did you get that from? She said nothing about getting child support or fighting to keep custody in order to keep getting child support.
“Yes, because suggesting an abortion, then abandoning them are HUGE signs that he WANTED to be a parent, right?”
----->BINGO, you are onto something here.
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gr8Dad
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"----->Where did you get that from? She said nothing about getting child support or fighting to keep custody in order to keep getting child support."
She said HE only wanted custody in order to get child support...so she should be held to the same standard, right?
"----->BINGO, you are onto something here"
So any woman who CONSIDERED abortion at any time during the pregnancy should lose custody, right?
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SweetLight
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"She said HE only wanted custody in order to get child support"
----->Where did she say this? Are we reading the same thread?
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gr8Dad
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Pretty clear, right here in the first post:
"A week into my vacation, I was served papers to establish paternity and he want's to be primary parent of our son. Found out that he want's to make sure I can't go after him for child support."
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SweetLight
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"which is strange because he filed first."
So he initiated the filing, and she did not.
You said that she only wants custody in order to get child support. Now you are saying that he only wants custody in order to get child support. I did not read that anywhere in this thread.
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gr8Dad
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There is NO WAY you can be that dense, which means you are just being ignorant, and I have no time for such ignorance, so good night.
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doingmybest
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Hi Everyone,
Thanks for the good advice. I didn't mean to stir any pots, just trying look out for the best interests of my son.
I'm seeing my lawyer again tomorrow and hopefully he can put a stop to any filing in CA since I'm only here for 2 weeks and am leaving this weekend to go back to Ohio.
By the way, I never said the father wanted to child support, I had only heard from a mutaul friend (who may not be reliable) that he wanted to get Primary to make sure that he doesn't have to pay support. The baby is already 4 months and I had no intention of filing for support. I choose to keep the baby, so that makes him my responsibilty no one elses.
FYI,
To this day the baby's father has not contacted me once to ask about his child. Even though I am in town it has not even crossed his mind to ask me to see the baby, which I would do in a heartbeat. Actions speak louder then a piece of paper asking for custody. I hope that a judge can see that the father does not have good intentions towards his son.
Edited by doingmybest (04/09/12 09:29 PM)
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SweetLight
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You did not stir any pots here. From your posts, I got that you were raising the baby without any help from him at all. Good luck with your meeting tomorrow and I wish you and your son the very best.
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