
Char9
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Reged: 06/03/05
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You're right. I know it, and I'm sorry I snapped at you. I just hate to see things like this happen. I know how it felt when it happened to me. I just didn't want his kids to have the same issues. But it's nothing I can control. I just have to let them figure it out and handle it on their own. Thanks, I appreciate the honesty.
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Char9
Carpal \'Tunnel

Reged: 06/03/05
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Oh, I don't know. The wiener dog might ask for something outrageous. LOL. Thank you. I know you are all right, and that I can't force them to change their relationship dynamics. It's how they were all raised. I just have to either accept it or move on. I do love H, for a lot of good reasons, but there are some that just really bug me. His kids is one of them, but as he said I come first. I'm not used to that, and I just hope that one day the skids and H will have a "meaningful" and honest relationship.
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LexieBelle
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Reged: 11/07/10
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No problema :)
I get "snappy" about certain situations out of frustration.. and I understand your frustration, I do. I get aggravated at my ex and his handling of his two kids.. so different.. will never get it.
I also understands the "meds" issue. I was taking Cymbalta. I'm an IBS-D sufferer, came back bad with exSO towards the end.. I was a nervous wreck. I took myself off totally recently. Stepped down but ultimately had to go cold turkey b/c I ran out basically and I wouldn't convert to Lexapro like the doc suggested. Gained 25 pounds since 12/2010. Lost 15 of it in the last 4 weeks. Definitely had a "moody" stretch during stepdown/cold turkey. Been off entirely a little over a week. I'm not a big fan of antidepressants/antianxiety drugs. Probably took them.. 20 years?? To get my dad medicated "right" and he takes enough to choke a small horse but it helps ;) Good luck to you.
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BeachBabeRN
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Reged: 01/16/06
Posts: 3028
Loc: VA for 21 years, NC forever!
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Be easier if he was in Marine boot camp -- nobody gets to call ANYONE and there's no electronic communication at all, they take their cell phones when they get to PI.
I hated every minute ofit but I saw the sense in it.
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Char9
Carpal \'Tunnel

Reged: 06/03/05
Posts: 2941
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It'll be fine. I will just let it go and not worry about it. I'll post some messages on his fb and send him some more treats. :)
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