SRS
Pooh-Bah
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JL won't come back here - at least not as JL. BBRN, I think, threatened to contact the court if she does with some type of incriminating information.
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LexieBelle
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No, not as herself. She stopped posting as herself once she realized she was bagged.
It is what it is. She's NEVER going to admit what she did.. as herself. Won't happen. But the FACT remains, that it WAS her. Period. I know you don't want to believe it and that we're all just meanies out to get her but? That's not the case.
In many ways? I'm SAD to have been right. I knew she'd push her ex and push her ex and push her ex. And someday, SOMEONE with an ax to grind would give him the gateway to her hatred of him and the games she plays. I don't think it was anyone here by the way.. I'm sure it was a Delphi/iVillage person. As much as people here don't like her? From what I understand they are BRUTAL to her over there. Which I believe. the few threads I read NOT related to her... those biotches are wayyyyyyyyyyyyy more psycho/angry than anyone here could ever hope to be. Blech.
Anyway, EXACTLY what she was warned would happen? Happened. She poked the tiger too many times and she gave him massive amounts of ammo to work with and voila! Shared custody for the summer. Just very dumb on her part. And sad.
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LexieBelle
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She didn't threaten to contact the court.. she said she'd contact JL's ex herself if she didn't knock it off.
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Treasure
journeyman
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From what I read, she said she was one troll. She did harass others as that troll, not nearly as bad as they harassed her, in my opinion. She did not ever, correct me if I'm wrong, confess to being her own stalker or any of the other posters. Her alter ego was created, again in my opinion, to combat these ladies as they wouldn't let up on her at all. Maybe it takes an outsider to see it, but it looks crystal clear to me.
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elliesmom
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Ok, I guess I remember the insinuation of an investigation, but not that she initiated it or what it was about. I always assumed it involved her exMIL.
I am not happy to be right either. I said eventually he would get his shyt together and come after her and a few things that were done were going to bite her big time. Contacting his command, not bending over backwards to make sure he spent as much time with his military father when he was able etc. Judges get pissed off mighty quick about that kind of thing. I understand her frustration with him - he is walking away scot free from upwards of tens of thousands of dollars he was supposed to pay and they will now pursue her over (he filed BK) on TOP OF the CS he didn't pay. That would make me spitting mad. But they expect you to be all rainbows and sunshine with the kids in spite of the financial nonsense. Frankly if I were her I would have followed his BK with my own. But being married it was probably not possible. Another reason to not get married before everything settles from your first marriage I guess.
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LexieBelle
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You're NOT an outsider. Puh-leeze. No one believes that dear.
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SRS
Pooh-Bah
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I never felt comfortable when people told her to contact his command - especially since he was just in the Guard. Never. We were missing important parts of the story.
Unless he was getting deployed or activated, he'd be in the local area and be able to visit with his kids like anyone else.
Plus, he'd be able to pay child support regularly and she could have it garnished from his check.
BTDT.
Yes, I agree with the BK thing. If what some of the other posters say is correct and her 2nd husband is a STBX, she could file BK now.
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Gecko
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I understand her frustration with him - he is walking away scot free from upwards of tens of thousands of dollars he was supposed to pay and they will now pursue her over (he filed BK) on TOP OF the CS he didn't pay.
---> You still believe that?
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SRS
Pooh-Bah
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Good point, Gecko.
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elliesmom
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I still know her name. We were FB friends once. I don't "believe" the BK thing. I read it a long while ago and know it. He walked away from the car debt and a bunch of other stuff. As his spouse at the time - they will go after her. That sux eggs. I would be PISSED. Its not like you can go back and redo the financial part of your divorce decree taking into account all of that and get more stuff.
As for the CS - I believe he is current, but the fact is she wiped out a lot of debt in exchange for SLC.
Over the money stuff - i would be livid. But you have to separate that from the kid stuff. And whether she should have known he wasn't a money guy - I don't know. Probably. Doesn't sound like he was Mr financially sound EVER. Using check cashing places etc. doesn't exactly scream "uses good sense."
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