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Re: Happy Mother's Day [Re: elliesmom]
      #784938 - 05/21/12 03:19 PM

Current on support? You might want to double check your facts.

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Re: Happy Mother's Day [Re: LexieBelle]
      #784940 - 05/21/12 03:23 PM

You are joking right?

---> Why would I be joking...I don't know what documents EM has been looking at...I don't know if JL supplied them, hence my 'potentially' or if she saw a complete certified copy or even a current court order and/or agreement...which is why context is important.

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Re: Happy Mother's Day [Re: Gecko]
      #784943 - 05/21/12 03:35 PM

The documents are online Gecko...at the court site..

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Re: Happy Mother's Day [Re: Gecko]
      #784945 - 05/21/12 03:36 PM

Ah.. fair enough.. EM has stated before.. a few times, that she's gone on the court site direct and looked. Didn't realize you hadn't gotten the memo ;-)

She's certainly NOT alone in that either. Quite a few people have, because of what the trolls have said, gone and looked. It's really kinda funny. No one would care/have interest until these threads come up now. Would anyone really care? But then the post comes and people get curious, particularly since many have years and years vested in her tale.. so might as well just get it straight from the record, no?

On this one.. EM is mostly right, but Mewanda has a point. The guy isn't currently working/current and will have arrears to catch up on once he IS working. So EM's statement that he is "current" isn't totally accurate. Child support.. no. Other arrears? Yes, since he's been absolved of them via the bankruptcy.


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Re: Happy Mother's Day [Re: Gecko]
      #784946 - 05/21/12 03:38 PM

Court records in every painstaking detail are online in her state.

As for Mewanda - I hope you are not JL. And I do not need to check anything. Mostly because I don't care. But if she is letting him have her up on contempt and HE hasn't been arrested for not paying support - she or her lawyers are morons. If you mean he recently got behind, well that is possible. But its not the "not paid CS in YEARS" that it was made out to be.

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Re: Happy Mother's Day [Re: elliesmom]
      #784948 - 05/21/12 03:48 PM

Seriously - "potentially doctored documents" lets hope the state of _____ is capable of maintaining appropriate court records.

---> Well EM, since I didn't know what documents you had seen, 'potentially' was correct.

I have learned I NEVER want to set foot in that state. Seriously everything down to the name and address of her kids daycare was on there. Enough to scare me shytless if I were her.

---> I would imagine that there are easier ways for pedophiles to find victims than trolling through divorce records...like FaceBook. The simple fact is...there is simply no way to redact that, and all the other potential 'harmful' information contained within a divorce decree or other family court order. My county isn't all that big, but it would easily take a half dozen people to carefully go through each and every document and black it out.

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Re: Happy Mother's Day [Re: Gecko]
      #784950 - 05/21/12 03:50 PM

Orrrrrrr, they could just NOT post the stuff online. Not everywhere does it. NY doesn't.

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Re: Happy Mother's Day [Re: LexieBelle]
      #784951 - 05/21/12 03:51 PM

Didn't realize you hadn't gotten the memo ;-)

---> I pretty much ignore trolls, so I didn't.

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Re: Happy Mother's Day [Re: LexieBelle]
      #784953 - 05/21/12 03:53 PM

Yeah, the state DH dealt in that had online records - it only recorded that there was a filing, what type, etc. If you wanted to SEE it - you had to go to the courthouse and request it.

Sorry Gecko - I forget that not everyone remembers every minute post. I did, back a while ago state that I had gone and checked the records during the whole arrest brouhaha. JL has never provided any court documents, emails, etc. to me.

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Re: Happy Mother's Day [Re: LexieBelle]
      #784956 - 05/21/12 04:11 PM

Orrrrrrr, they could just NOT post the stuff online. Not everywhere does it. NY doesn't.

---> I agree. The only thing my county courthouse posts online for the general public is the court calender. Arizona restricts information to just the posting of the docket in Family and Juvenile Matters. Criminal and Civil, you get access to the MEs.

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