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Re: The end is in sight [Re: Sadie]
      #785410 - 05/29/12 12:52 PM

Sadie, it is sad to see that after all these years you are still so insecure about and around BM.

I would say your husband will be missing out on a large part of his life involving his DD. But, I just don't see him as being a man of high standing moral and caring character.

I guess I am one of the lucky ones. My ex and I, along with our spouses have no problem being near each other. We have celebrated graduations, births, birthday parties and random holidays together. Sat together through illnesses and supported each other during deaths and one big natural disaster. We have always loved our kids and grandkids more than we disliked each other.


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Re: The end is in sight [Re: Gecko]
      #785421 - 05/29/12 02:03 PM

Even if our decree says it ends at 18? when we did our divorce, the kids were very small.. the courts wouldn't allow us to put anything in at the time regarding college.. and now here I am behind the 8 ball with him turning 18 at the end of July.

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Re: The end is in sight [Re: rocketgirl]
      #785433 - 05/29/12 02:56 PM

So did mine. But they changed the law going forward...AND if your original decree was modified, it was proactive. And how they got around the 'modified'...was making sure they reviewed every single child support order for COLA...which 'modified' the original decree.

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Re: The end is in sight [Re: Sadie]
      #785506 - 05/29/12 11:23 PM

[quote]June will be the last month dh pays cs. Sd will turn 18 and graduate hs. She is still angry that hubby didnt give her the money for her wedding dress/reception ( to the tune of 27,000 dollars) but oh well she'll live. If getting married was so important to them, they would have found a way to do so in a way that they could afford. She will be working this summer, and starting college in the fall. I cant believe that bm is out of our lives for good. [/quote]

I too hope the end is near for you, your husband and family. Good luck to you.


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