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my husband is deployed currently and we decided we wanted to divorce because we were too different. well im going to skip all the bull in the middle and get right down to what i need help with...
im needing to know if there is any thing at all i can do to get my husband to pay myself and our child enough money to cover the bills, hes being "nice" and giving me full BAH (873) but the bills come out to 1250 a month when including car, insurance, 2 credit cards, cell phone, food, gas, and baby necessities ( diapers/wipes etc) and i wouldnt be so upset about this because i could start working but I for one would need to find a job and get hired on first ( i just moved back home) not to mention i have a 90 hr externship i need to complete to get my school certificate other wise i have topay my schalorship back and i have to have this done by july 3rd... so with out his help our son and myself wont have enough to get by on... i feel as though him making an extra 1500+ a month because he is married and has a child that the least he could do would be support us long enough for me to find work ( btw im having to move again july 14th) so ill be out of work again until i find a new job.... idk its complicated and i feel like there must be more that i can do to get him to support his family seeming s how there is no legal documents for seperation or divorce as far as civil and military are concerned we are still married....
sorry this is lengthy i just i really need help...
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elliesmom
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Absent a court order I don't think you can get more money than BAH. It would be impossible to get a court order with him deployed and in general it would take months anyway.
I say something has got to give. If that means you quit paying credit card bills, cell phone bills, and his car note so be it. If you guys are being civil - tell him he can either pay you what you need or you will stop paying what you can't afford and ding his credit too. I certainly wouldn't screw up my future just to make sure I wasn't a few months late on a credit card bill.
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