finz
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Change is difficult for those with Aspergers.....and on the continuum. Limiting his time in his father's home is not going to make it more familiar to him.
Sometimes dealing with the ramifications of not dealing with the treatment plan convince someone who is denying the dx or the tx plan that they might want to get with the plan.
Visiting them in another state is not the same as involving them in his home and family life.
The direct answer to your question is if they have been in CO for 2 years, you should be able to file there.
Maybe your mind is made up, but I still think it's reasonable to listen to other opinions.
Staying with dad may cause some distress.....so does sending an uncooperative kid to the dentist, but it should still be done. Thinking about the long term consequences is important.
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Sle
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Thank you Finz! Right now I am in the research stage. The last thing I want to do is make modifications , especially with the courts. I am going to continue trying to work with my ex as much as I can but if my youngest's welfare becomes in jeopardy, I want to be prepared. Again I am not looking to take away but to modify, if needed. What I fund interesting is the kids have done well with the transition and the trips (for the most part) until recently. They would normally start "pushing" after about 2 to 3 weeks but this was immediately, especially my youngest. I am not sure what changed but it is not good. The boys want to see their dad but not for a long period of time.
Thank you again for your input. I know things will work out and I will always have kids' best interest in mind which includes their father being in their lives, if he chooses
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annieo
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Loc: Pacific Northwest
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"if he chooses"
Sounds like he IS choosing to be in their lives if he doesn't want to give up his time....
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