finz
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[quote] Unless you have some advice you can offer, keep your comments to yourself. I have enough people like that around me that I really don't need anymore thank you. [/quote]
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Unless you start your own forum and require all posters to agree with your opinions, you have a heck of a nerve telling people whether or not they can make comments.
You CHOSE to come here and post. If you "have enough people like that around me that I really don't need anymore" feel free to leave.
If you chose to stay, you'll likely continue to see varied responses. Learn from what you can, ignore the rest.
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Threeandme
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You know Finz, or whatever you call yourself, I married my husband with the notion of actually being with him until death do us part. I know that is hard to believe but I really do not care. What your ignorance has failed to recognize, which blows my mind seeing how I explained it pretty plainly, is that my husband walked out on me and our children and did not come back. I was 6 months pregnant and had no idea anything was going on. So, tell me, how on earth do you think I was in control of that? Did his penis accidently fall into this woman or did she hold a gun to his head and force him to leave? You have pretty black and white thinking. And I did not join this site thinking I want people to say mean things to me because that is what is going to help me. I just wanted to get some advice about my kids from people who have gone through it or are going through it. I did not have control over what he did by leaving, so save that whole "did he rape me" bit, that is just so stupid. What are you, 5 too? Give me a break! I have 3 young children who have been forced into this situation and now they are among the millions of other children being raised in two different homes, and all I want is to do everything I can in my power to ensure they dont get too screwed up. I have observed some unusual behavior from my kids and was curious if maybe other peoples kids have similiar things happening. This probably isn't the right site for this. We all make mistakes.
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Threeandme
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And yes Finz, he did choose this path for both of us. If it were up to me I would still be in my marriage doing whatever it took to make it work. I guess I am different in that I do have a value system that stops me from doing things that other folks find so easy to do. Now that this path was picked for me, I have definately made it my own road and chose not to stay on the one he is on. And no, I don't consider me a "poor thing". I am an independent, single, beautiful mother of 3 amazing kids and am blessed every day of my life. I am just experiencing stuff I haven't seen before in my kids.
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Threeandme
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I wanted to reply to you but just forgot. I would love to be able to walk my hysterical daughter to his car but I have been told I am not allowed to come close to his car. I am telling you, I think he has gone mental. I haven't done one thing to have him act this way. I have never spoken one word to the girlfriend, never yelled at him during an exchange, nothing! The only time I was really ever emotional about the whole thing was when he initially walked out and I had no way of feeding my kids, and not to mention I was pregnant and devestated. I don't know, I just keep my distance because I don't know what they are capable of doing.
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finz
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[quote]You know Finz, or whatever you call yourself [/quote]
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I think it's fairly apparent that on this site, I do indeed call myself 'finz'
Sorry if you were somehow unable to figure that out.
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finz
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[quote]And yes Finz, he did choose this path for both of us.
If it were up to me I would still be in my marriage doing whatever it took to make it work.
Now that this path was picked for me
I have definately made it my own road and chose not to stay on the one he is on. [/quote]
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Doh !
Waaahhhh ! He put me on this road.....No, wait ! I chose this road !
Do you read the crap you write before you click to post it ?
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finz
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[quote] I married my husband with the notion of actually being with him until death do us part. I know that is hard to believe but I really do not care. What your ignorance has failed to recognize, which blows my mind seeing how I explained it pretty plainly, is that my husband walked out on me and our children and did not come back. I was 6 months pregnant and had no idea anything was going on. So, tell me, how on earth do you think I was in control of that? Did his penis accidently fall into this woman or did she hold a gun to his head and force him to leave? You have pretty black and white thinking. And I did not join this site thinking I want people to say mean things to me because that is what is going to help me. I just wanted to get some advice about my kids from people who have gone through it or are going through it. I did not have control over what he did by leaving, so save that whole "did he rape me" bit, that is just so stupid. What are you, 5 too? Give me a break! [/quote]
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What your ignorance has failed to recognize is that YOU picked this jackhole. Did his penis accidentally fall into you.......3 times ? Or did you invite him in ?
YOU married him. You haven't claimed he forced you, so assuming you didn't do it under duress.....you CHOSE to be with him.
Sounds like a bad pick.
That's no crime. I'm here because I made a bad pick too. OWN that. Stop blaming EVERYTHING on him.
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ssmom79
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You never know someone until you divorce them.
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ssmom79
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I have never spoken one word to the girlfriend, never yelled at him during an exchange, nothing!
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How long do you plan to not speak to the GF? I get she is the other woman, but she can potentially be an ally.
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