NewMexPop
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I hope I spelled that right. My ex is such a narcissist, she will use the kids to "spy" on me by pumping them for information, then sends me an email criticizing me and insulting me about something that happened with the kids. Well, the kids are still young enough that what they tell her is not completely accurate, so the criticism is completely unwarranted. I no longer speak to her on the phone because she cannot control her temper, but she will call anyway and leave me angry voice mail messages. Now she wants custody because she claims I refuse to parent cooperatively and involve her in decision making. I always make sure she knows when doctor appointments and school appointment are so there really are no "decisions" being made by me alone. How do you deal with someone like this? She is incredibly angry and bitter.
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finz
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Try an email service that shows the other party received the message.....then only communicate about the kids using that method so you have documentaion about what was agreed to/what plans were discussed.
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lojac999
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Well, I haven't got all the way to her wanting to take my custody away yet. ... Yet.
But - other than that, you just described my situation exactly. My daughter are 6 and 8 and she drills them about every little thing that happens when they're at my house. Which is all the time, since we have 50/50 joint custody.
Honestly man, I don't have a solution for you other than to wait it out and try to be polite and professional with her. DO NOT EVER GET INTO THE ARGUMENT. You can't win with a person like this.
Talk only about the kids. Know that she's just trying to get to you and upset you. Do your very best everyday to be a great dad. Keep a record of all your communication so that you will be able to prove, if you ever need to, that she's the one causing the problem and being angry and mean.
That's all I've got. I'm hoping time will make her chill, but I've known her for 10 years and I don't think that's going to happen.
How long have you been divorced?
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IamSimplyJenn
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Sounds like my son's ex. She filed in Indian courts and was awarded sole custody, and then moved to Virginia. It has been over 2 years now and for the last 3 months she has refused to let my son talk to the kids. Last night he finally got to talk to his son because it was his birthday and his son now calls his dad by his first name! This mother is doing parent alienation and we don't know how to stop it. She won't let the kids talk to him, she refuses to let them come for his visitation, she's cut everyone out of the kids life from our side of the family. Fighting Indian courts is extremly hard. We don't know what to do. We're in Oklahoma and my son cant' afford an attorney right now. He just recently started working again so money is tight right now. He's not behind on child support either, he does everything he's suppose to by the divorce decree and she refuses to comply.
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