JoJoMan
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Loc: Houston, TX
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It is very hard to feel unwanted or unloved by the person we love. It made me feel as though I was unlovable. This was Nonsense!
For me, Coming to the realization that even if she hadn’t said "I don’t love you any more" (The catalysts to our breakup) the simple fact is, we were miserable for years and the pain of being desperately lonely with your spouse lying right next to you in bed has been far worse than the pain of our marriage ending.
The problems with the marriage were not about finding out that she didn’t love me, they were the result of living for years with her not loving me.
Somehow, that helps me know that the future will be brighter for her and me. We were not good together. I want her to be happy and I want this for me too. It sounds like you had problems with the marriage too. This is just the end of a long history of pain.
I will love myself again – I know this to be true.
The one thing this is teaching me is that if someone does not want to be with me, then I don’t want to be with them. Good riddens! God Bless and go!
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seesterbarbee
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I, too, feel hurt & lost over my divorce from what I believed was the "love of my life" I feel great anger at this man who betrayed me & not sure I will ever love someone again. I struggle every day with acceptance.
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enigma82
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It really is hard. Im new here and going through a divorce with the woman I thought I would spend the rest of my life with. The most hurt came to me when she told me that she wanted to sleep with other people. It floored me. I dont wish that much pain on anyone. I would tell her I love her and she wouldnt say anything. Or she would say she deosnt feel like saying it back. Its crushing. But reading others post and posting has been very beneficial. I still love her and dont want to be without her. But you cant make someone love you. And its pointless to try in my opinion. I the end though I belive she will see what she has lost. And by then my hurt should have already started to minimize. Stay strong, pray and it will get better.
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