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rodtod11
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How do you find out your ex has remarried?
      #793972 - 11/05/12 08:00 PM

I am paying monthly support which was suppose to stop when my ex remarries. In the beginning she was suppose to notify me within 48 hours of her getting a job so the support could be modified. She never did and I had to go to court. Now, the support stops if she remarries. I heard from someone that she has remarried. I know she lives with a boyfriend, but how can I find out about a marriage? I would need to get some sort of proof to take to court.

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Re: How do you find out your ex has remarried? [Re: rodtod11]
      #794029 - 11/06/12 09:48 AM

I am not positive but aren't marriage records public knowledge - you might be able to go to your states court website and see it there was a marriage certificate issued. I was able to get my husbands divorce from his first marriage by just ordering them from the county they lived in - he did not even have to sign anything so I would think marriage records would also be available - that is where I would start.

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Re: How do you find out your ex has remarried? [Re: annieo]
      #794049 - 11/06/12 02:07 PM

For me it was easy, she posted it on Facebook, wedding photos and all. Sure I am blocked, but one of her "friends" sent me a text when it happened.

Oddly enough she denied that she got married (fraud) in response to my email questioning her about it. I printed her facebook page off and filed a pro se motion with it. It worked! No marriage certificate required!

If I didn't live 600 miles away I would have gone to the county recorder's office looking for the certificate. I guess that's your best option.

Moral of the story: only a woman would post wedding photos on facebook then lie about to fraudulently collect more alimony. Might as well tattoo the word liar on her forehead.


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Re: How do you find out your ex has remarried? [Re: hanzblinx]
      #794051 - 11/06/12 02:45 PM

See if you can find out "where" she got remarried. My wife and I live in NJ, but got married in VT (close to family) so our records are in Vermont, not NJ. Then go to that town hall and buy a copy of the marriage license. Should be anywhere from $5-$25 for a copy.

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Re: How do you find out your ex has remarried? [Re: annieo]
      #794272 - 11/09/12 09:07 PM

Sure "IF" they got married in their home state. It's pretty easy to go some place else and get married. The marriage certificate would then be filed there.

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Re: How do you find out your ex has remarried? [Re: hanzblinx]
      #794608 - 11/14/12 02:00 PM

only a woman would post wedding photos on facebook then lie about to fraudulently collect more alimony. Might as well tattoo the word liar on her forehead.
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Change 'woman' to 'a$$hole' and I'd agree.


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