aussie928
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Reged: 10/29/04
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Loc: Dallas
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(quote) But I'm not ambulatory. (quote) actually you ARE ambulatory unless you are in a wheelchair or bedridden.
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chestnutbrown1
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Reged: 01/11/05
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I'm not in a wheelchair or bedridden. And I do go to court on next week.
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Diane67
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Reged: 08/14/04
Posts: 341
Loc: California
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Chestnut, You really need to be careful with your actions. What kind of message are you sending to your children and your stbx?
My stbx and I are very careful about how we conduct ourselves around the children. I have had other men in my life after my stbx left, but my children will never see it until the divorce is final. I know my stbx has had other women also, but he won't do it in front of the kids. I guess our children and their peace of mine are more important than jumping into another 24/7 relationship with someone. I suppose this could be viewed as a holier than thou attitude, but I believe in what's best for my children. They are the victims in this action, not the two people who can't live together anymore.
Think about what you are doing and showing your children. Is this the way you want them to act when they grow up?
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aussie928
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Reged: 10/29/04
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Loc: Dallas
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sorry luv...but if you go back and read all of chestnuts posts...nothing she does is for the good of the wee ones..its all me...me..me
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Onyx
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Reged: 08/03/04
Posts: 816
Loc: Buffalo NY
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Yes, I saw that. WOW. My biggest worry when my divorce started, was how the kids would feel, and how they would react to all the changes. I still worry. The house and all the toys are gone from us, but we are still all together, thats what matters. We came out on top. When I asked my Goddess to make sure that whatever happened, happened with the higher good of my family FIRST...even if it meant I lost my ass.... when in reality, I didnt lose anything. I have the kids, and they are happier now than they ever have been. Just took some change for that to occur. Now I see just how unhealthy my marriage was. Blessings, Onyx
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Diane67
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Reged: 08/14/04
Posts: 341
Loc: California
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I saw that from her previous posts. Just makes me very sad for her kids. I have always tried to put my children first and I always will, until they are off to college - then it's PARTY TIME!!!! But I can wait. Luckily, I only have to wait 2 years.
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Onyx
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Loc: Buffalo NY
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Well, Diane, I have a few more years than you do until its party time. Unfortunatley, when that time comes, I will be a Grandmother... my kids are 10 years apart. So, when the little guy is 12 or 13, the older one will be 22 or 23, and perhaps married and starting his family.... and it will be all down hill from there....LOL I am a sucker for a cute baby, and I cant IMAGINE how it will feel when that cute baby just happens to be my own Grandchild.. My Mother has always told me, "I love you kids, BUT there is something about my Grandchildren that makes me love more." And trust me when I tell you, my Mother has always made us feel number one, and very loved. Watching her with our kids makes me look forward to the time when I can enjoy Grandchildren too, and also reinforces the love that I felt for my Grandmother. We always had a very special bond, that was different than the parental bond...... oh lord, I am getting off point again here....LOL
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