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DebGray
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Need Advise/long post

#799543 - 02/14/13 09:26 PM

I am new to this group and Need advice. My husband and I got divorced several years ago. Due to financial issues & to make it easier for my kids-he invited me to live in their new house. I lived there for 3 years. Last Sunday he was hateful to our 13 year old. I stood up for our son which angered me ex. He stormed out...came back 30 minutes later and forced me to leave. Both kids in tears. I am not a co owner of the house but was told the way he did it was illegal. I am at my parents and miss and worry about my kids! My husband has a violent temper...he never hit me but I suffered emotional abuse for years. Finances r tight...I don't know what to do.

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MinnesotaMom
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Re: Need Advise/long post

[Re: DebGray]
#799583 - 02/15/13 07:49 AM

Who has custody of the kids according to your divorce decree?

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Anything4Love
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Re: Need Advise/long post

[Re: MinnesotaMom]
#799727 - 02/17/13 06:01 PM

I think when someone told you it was illegal they meant you should have had something in writing describing the terms of your tenancy, since you were divorced and not in a romantic relationship with him.

I don't know every state's law but I doubt there is any state where a person can be thrown out of their place of residence with zero notice, with or without a lease. You need to check on roommates rights or tenants rights laws specific to your state.

It's outrageous that he pulled a stunt like that in front of the children, and well worth adding to your custody events log (if you don't have one, you should start one to protect your rights)

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finz
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[Re: DebGray]
#800326 - 03/04/13 05:49 PM

You suffered emotional abuse from him for years and you have since voluntarily moved into his house for 3 years ?

If you tried to use that against him in court, I doubt that a judge would find that your ex was the unstable one. I'd rethink that strategy.

I don't know what happened with the incident with your 13 yo or what you would qualify as 'hateful' behavior on your ex's part. I do understand that I don't know any parent of a teen who always managed things optimally. Teens can be a challenge. If you really think your ex crossed a line over that incident with your child, you have to do whatever you can to protect that child. Do you think this is an incident for child protective services ? Or do you think your ex overreacted, but wasn't totally out of line ? Have you talked to your ex since about the incident ? Have you had parenting time with the kids since ?

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