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How much flexibility for Visitation?
      #802242 - 04/17/13 10:04 PM

My divorce is relatively new. My child lives with ex and visits me every Friday evening to Saturday afternoon. We also have 2 hour dinner time on Wednesdays.

I have been giving her freedom when she doesn't want to come, for example, when she doesn't feel well, or when she wants to go to a birthday party.

This evening ex told me that my child has bad allergy symptom, and didn't want to get up to see me. I agreed.

Is this good, for the child, and for me? I don't want to let my child feel I am forcing her just because it is "my time", especially when she is sick.

Is this going to cause me trouble later in Court?

Thanks.


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Re: How much flexibility for Visitation? [Re: asfasf]
      #802254 - 04/18/13 09:51 AM

I would not allow freedom to come and go for visitation. You're talking about a six year old.

You can take her to a birthday party on your time. You can care for a sick child.

This is someone who moved and denied you the address she lived, someone who refuses counseling for her child, I would say yes this will probably be used against you in some fashion at a later time. Will it cause trouble, depends on what you keep in your own records to refute it later.


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