Dannysmommy
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Hi Camdensmom, I am very sorry to hear that you are also going through the torture that I am going through, being without your child. I am truely in no position to offer advice, but I really think that if I were you I'd be in court fighting for a modification of parenting times. The only reason that I see my son 3 days on, then 3 days off is because of the court. I am going to see my atty on Friday again to put in a new order to change the parenting time. In the meantime I will be collecting letters from my sons school, gymboree, karate class stating what type of mom I am, through a relative strangers eyes. Like your child my son is also suffering through this. My husband is extremely controlling, and won't budge one inch, regardless of how much our little boy cries and pleads. He is doing his damnest to hurt me, which he is accomplishing, but not seeing our little boys pain. I have completed all the tests, 10 panel drug screening, an alcohol assesment twice, and have a tether on to prove that my husband is blantly lying. I will get the tether off thankfully next week, but we did prove our point, that I am not drinking, nor do I have a problem with not drinking. I wish you all the best, you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Genny
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needhelpASAP
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Reged: 03/04/05
Posts: 6
Loc: New Mexico
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Im going through the same situation. I have been the mother and the father of my children from the time they were born. My husband and I separated, not legally, but we did have separations papers written up and they were signed. I relocated to the State of New Mexico and he relocated to Arizona. Before leaving Virginia I had him sign and agreement for me to bring my kids with me to New Mexico and start my life over with them, It was signed and notarized.
When he moved to Arizona he would come pick them up and take them for the weekend and I would pick them up on Sundays. Three weeks ago I went to go pick up my kids on Sunday and my daughter was no where to be found ( my son was there), he would not give me back my daughter or tell me where she was. I called the AZ cops and they did squat! He told me that he would bring her back that following Friday and instead I get a call from a Lawyer stating that he wants to file a restraining order on me and that he wants custody of my daughter.
First of all, I have done everthing for my children and he is trying to accuse me of all these false accusations, turning everything that he has ever done, onto saying it was me!!!! The law is in any State that a child has to be a resident of that state for 6 months before and custody issues, my daughter has not even been there for a month. I have not lived in NM for six months (which is the requirement in this state to be a resident)
I can't get help from anyone in any of the three STATES. The only reason he has taken my daughter is that I will not return with him for any reason.
He is coaching my daughter into hating me and not wanting to see me or talk to me by phone (she is 4). I have been denied to see her and not able to talk to her because of his cruel intentions. I have tried to get legal advice and no one is willing to help me because Im not a resident of the State od New Mexico (1 1/2 months to go) and I was told to get help in Virginia because that was the last residency of my daughter and they won't help me either.
I don't want to lose my daughter because of his false accustations when he damn well knows I have always done EVERYTHING for my children and he has done SQUAT!
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