aussie928
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Reged: 10/29/04
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Loc: Dallas
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(quote) Can I just carry you around in my back pocket instead?!! :) (quote)
My hell luv..going to make me blush you are...lol
As to the rest...your STBX appears to be like my friends STBX...thinks he's the brightest..and in fact is just the opposite...in reality luv..I will tell you the same thing I told my friend. If he isnt going to play fair then as hard as it is...be glad he is a halfwit. This will only help you in the long run. She has won every battle so far.
The fact that his own attorney has caught him in lies..is not going to help him..though attorneys are of course in it for money..no attorney wants to walk into a courtroom and be caught with his daks down...and no client is worth their reputation.
My suggestion: Compose a response to his postie...advising him that per the agreement between all parties..the responsibility of the house is and remains his and you feel it would be in violation of the agreement to enter this house for any reason. In addition you have no means of doing so as he retains all keys. In closing, since it was his choice and decision to vacate the property, you will hold him personally responsible for any items stolen or missing.
Now this is the important part. Compose...do NOT send...send a copy to your attorney and ask if you can send. Yoour attorney will either say no..yes...or tell you to add or delete. Attorneys charge less if they dont have to write letters themselves. I suggest you do not just ignore..but based on the games he is playing do not just respond to this or anything else without first clearing it with your attorney.
And start taping..
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Laurel
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Reged: 08/14/04
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Loc: California
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and the answer is....
*drum roll please*
You are not accepting responsibility for the house payments by taking a key. You have as much right to access to the house as he has. *grin*
Who woulda thunk it??
Now at least I can go get some of the stuff I wanted.
<quote>If he isnt going to play fair then as hard as it is...be glad he is a halfwit<end quote> **words to live by!!** :)
Thanks for everything!!
I am sure I'll have another in my long list of stupid questions coming soon.
I get to see him again on Wednesday... *rolls eyes*
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sugarb
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Reged: 12/16/04
Posts: 375
Loc: In the Heartland on America
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Better safe than sorry. Good thing you asked!
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Laurel
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Reged: 08/14/04
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Loc: California
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exactly! I would rather be caught with my guard up, then my pants down! :)
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aussie928
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Reged: 10/29/04
Posts: 969
Loc: Dallas
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(quote) You are not accepting responsibility for the house payments by taking a key. You have as much right to access to the house as he has. *grin*
I am sure I'll have another in my long list of stupid questions coming soon. I get to see him again on Wednesday... *rolls eyes* (quote)
My hell..that must be some agreement.... I am glad you can get your things..Sorry I didnt give you the right answer..I believe when in doubt... it is always best to safe then sorry later... There are no stupid questions luv...and dont forget your tape recorder Wens..lol
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Laurel
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Reged: 08/14/04
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Loc: California
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{quote}My hell..that must be some agreement.... I am glad you can get your things..Sorry I didnt give you the right answer..I believe when in doubt... it is always best to safe then sorry later... There are no stupid questions luv...and dont forget your tape recorder Wens..lol{/quote}
I hear ya!!
I never would have dreamed THAT answer!
I was floored when I pulled that up!
For the record you all gave me the right answer.
What was said in this thread was what I needed to hear!
(that I am not loosing my cookies!)
*grabs the recorder and hides it in her purse* ;)
I am going out for a beer, anyone with me?? ;)
Edited by Laurel (02/28/05 07:53 PM)
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aussie928
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Loc: Dallas
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(quote) I am going out for a beer, anyone with me?? ;)
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have a grog or two for me luv..
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sugarb
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Reged: 12/16/04
Posts: 375
Loc: In the Heartland on America
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Laurel, Since it certainly sounds as if you and I will have dealt with a very similar beast, Aussie is right on the money with the recorder. I had to start using the recorder AFTER the fact, to reopen our case and turn over the original decision by the judge. Use my experience to your benefit. Trust nothing, document and record everything. I wish I had from the very beginning.
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Laurel
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Reged: 08/14/04
Posts: 39
Loc: California
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Yes! point well taken.
Picture if you will me picking up and dropping of the kids every week with a mini disc recorder stuffed in my bra! :-)
You should see some of the written documentation I have on this guy!
At times I have had to reread some of it, going back to last year this time, and I tell ya I wonder sometimes how I made it out with most of my sanity still in check! *shutters*
If he says anything good I'll rip it to mp3 and send you all a disc. *grin*
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