overtherainbow
enthusiast
Reged: 10/23/04
Posts: 268
Loc: New England
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I am so sick of being crazy mad. It is just so infuriating when your stbx does stuff just to get you pissed off. I called to say that he was $200 short on the child support (money is not an issue-he is wealthy) and he made my 16 year old son take it out of his gift savings and told my son he had to drive over and give it to me. My son arrived in tears with his own money to give me. I contacted my attorney who is contacting the child custody mediator. He is playing mind games with my son and it is horrible.
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willow820
newbie
Reged: 03/22/05
Posts: 32
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Wow. That sounds pretty twisted! You said that your attorney is contacting the custody mediator. Are you going to try to get custody changed?
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mom_to_mackenzie
journeyman
Reged: 03/13/05
Posts: 74
Loc: Oregon
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OMG Poor boy...i cant believe he would do that...Men can be real mean sometimes.
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overtherainbow
enthusiast
Reged: 10/23/04
Posts: 268
Loc: New England
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Divorce is hard enough on kids without nasty mind games. I read some of the child custody posts especially with younger kids and it's just very sad.The kids want to have a positive realtionship with each of their parents but due to parental hostilities that are beyond reason it makes it damn near impossible.
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prginocx
journeyman
Reged: 01/12/05
Posts: 86
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Excellent lesson for the boy. Get used to the idea of paying off a woman. Soon he will be grown up and can pay a lot more after he gets screwed by the court system.
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almostheaven
Carpal \'Tunnel
Reged: 07/13/04
Posts: 10468
Loc: West Virginia
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Another deadbeat speaks out.
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Char Fox
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sugarb
enthusiast
Reged: 12/16/04
Posts: 375
Loc: In the Heartland on America
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Your sick, P....
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prginocx
journeyman
Reged: 01/12/05
Posts: 86
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You are right, I am sick. I'm sick at heart because my childhood dream of an intact family (Which I never had, I barely had an intact body after my stepdad finished with me...) has been destroyed by the legal system.
Our legal system offers an irrestible incentive for Women to stop working, and never return. Even a person with the best character can be tempted, and for many women after the kids go off to school, they just enjoy the time too much to actually work. So they screw around with a "home based" business, or work part time, or just flop in front of the boob tube all day. It is sad, but if you are born with something men will pay for, I guess your character can't really develope beyond a certain point.
P.S. If Men didn't want sex, or if women wanted it a whole lot more, the situation would probably be reversed (In terms of mens poor character). As it is the ONLY safe way for a man to raise kids is to pay a contract Mom and make sure she has ZERO custody rights.
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prginocx
journeyman
Reged: 01/12/05
Posts: 86
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A "positive" relationship with the kids after divorce is a very bad idea, because it teaches them that you are the kind of person who allows yourself to be crushed and doesn't do anything about it...
Far better for them to learn to hate early and continuously. There is strength in hate and it can be powerful motivator. Very bad lesson for the kids to see you being taken advantage of...
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almostheaven
Carpal \'Tunnel
Reged: 07/13/04
Posts: 10468
Loc: West Virginia
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Dude, you're so danged bitter, you really should try talking to a professional. Your posts are all women this, women that, teach kids to hate???? Most people here have been screwed over by an ex or the legal system. Not everyone wears it on their sleeve so vehemently. Such hatred and bitterness can destroy you. And frankly, it does nothing to your ex. It only makes the ex think they actually got you good or something. If they see that they got to you, you only make them feel better about what they did. Is that what you want your ex thinking?
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Char Fox
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