Hen
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Reged: 08/29/06
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if my fiances parents were always involved in the childs life and now that she has a new boyfriend, she isnt letting us see him now, (we go to court in 2 weeks)and she tells the grandparents not to call and cant see the 3 year old because her new boyfriend is going to be the father, can she really do that? shes pregnant again and says that its her family, shes in the navy... how does this work? Will it look bad on her in court??
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despedina
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Reged: 08/14/06
Posts: 697
Loc: Hillsboro, MO
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Uh, she can't just take your fiancee's rights away. Stop worrying about making her look bad. The court will at the very least give him visitation, and he can take the child to his parents' house during those times.
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Hen
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by having his parents go will that really help us more? they are bringing picture and other proof of "fun" things we did with him when he was with us.
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Buckeye
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Pictures don't prove anything - they can be "staged". That is what my SIL's attorney told him.
His parent most likely will not be called to be witnesses in court.
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despedina
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Ganging up on her won't help. This is between your fiancee and her.
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Hen
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your right. we just thought it would help. shes bringing her boyfriend and old babysitter (her sitter is suppose o be there to say that she had guardian ship of the child when she was gone) she screwed up there by having her boyfriend come to our house. but anyways i just cant wait for all of this to be over with.
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despedina
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So let her look like a lunatic, bringing everyone to court. My ex did that, too. Brought his girlfriend, mom, grandma and 2 brothers to court with him. I just brought either my mom or BF so I wouldn't be alone and be ganged up on. Your fiancee and you, or another supportive person should be plenty. Otherwise it looks like his "mommy and daddy" have to help him every step of the way.
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Buckeye
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My SIL is in court for custody from the BM. His witness was his wife. His attorney said that he really couldn't use his parents and DD's parent because we were not there all the time.
BM had her boyfriend's mother as a witness and she actually did more harm to her case than help. She didn't even have her boyfriend as a witness.
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