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One person wants out the other Doesn't.
      #148718 - 09/21/06 09:11 AM

Long STory short, I have made the decision to divorce my wife, we have been unhappily married for 5 years and together for 7 in total. We have 2 young Children together and argue infront of them all the time. I ahve just really emotionally shut down and do not want to remain married to my wife any more. We are attempting counselling but I am pretty sure it's to little too late. She doesn't believe in Divorce and is unwilling to let go. I am pretty sick to my stomach about the fact that she has feelings for me that I do not reciprocate.. How can I help her move on? I don't hate her, I still love her, I am just not in love with her adn do not want to drag this on any longer...


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Re: One person wants out the other Doesn't. [Re: 2DDad]
      #149036 - 09/22/06 07:49 AM

I was married the first time at 18( too young) anyway I felt the same way you do. We tried to work it out but we were two different people. Anyway we were married three years with one child when I filed for divorce he didn't want it but I insisted. The judge ordered that the divorce be delayed for 30 days to try and reconcile because x did not want divorce. But that was 14 years ago I don't know how it works now when one person doesn't want it.

I quess my point is yes it will be very painful for her at first, but in the long run she will be better off to find soemone that will care for her the way she cares for them. She is being cheated out of her happiness if the feelings are not mutual. And as for the children I think they would be better off with two peaceful loving parents who are apart as to deal with the tension and pain of seeing their parents fighting all the time.

It was painful for my x but we both have new spouses. more children and he even has a step-grandson. I believe he's happy. (I know I am) we would have been misereable if we had stayed together.

Good Luck, hope this rambling helped

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