isabella_7w7
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So My Wife asked me to move out as few weeks ago, which I did. She said she needed some space and time because she has lost feelings for me. We have had a rocky relationship (2 years married Dated 3 years) we get is some heated arguments about incidents in the past that for some reason we have not been able to let go of. There has been time in the past where I wanted to give up, but I know we haven’t taken the proper steps to resolve our issues.
Well she decided she wanted to work things out so we are starting counseling. I am sleeping in the office and trying to give her the space she needs. But haven’t been doing so well. She tells me she out of love with me and has no feelings for me. She says she should be feeling something when I hug her or kiss her on the cheeks, but she doesn’t. The Dr. believes she has a wall up and we just need to get it down. However my wife does not believe she has a wall up. But anytime I go to hug or kiss her, she tenses up like I’m a stranger. Like she is not even allowing herself to feel.
So I guess here’s my question.. what can I do (Other than giving her space) to deposit into her love bank without putting pressure on her. I know many people have been in my shoes so I am hoping I can get some ideas or advice. Thanks and sorry for the book.
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darren95al
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Hi,
I hope someone answers you soon with some advice. I was in the same boat pretty much. She first told me she doesn't love me anymore about 3 weeks ago and we couldn't really talk about anything at the time. Now 3 weeks later and I left town once to give her space and she tracked me down. Why would she do that if she didn't miss me or love me? And always I get lots of conflicting messages from her but she still comes to the conclusion that she doesn't love me anymore. Finally, I decided to go for much talked about new concept of Marriage Counseling by Dr. Max Vogt Ph.D. in Psychology Expert Couples Counselor. I think it’s worth. Recently to make the relationship more stronger and romantic this valentine he has given the “The Ten Day Valentine” We rebuilt our relation and now we are pulling on well. I suggest you to try the same. You can get a Personalized Great Relationship Evaluation for no cost by registering to the site and get Free audio messages from 3 feb to 13 Feb (The ten days that will make ur life beautiful)
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