verysad
newbie
Reged: 04/10/07
Posts: 31
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My husband located me on line. We chit chated back and forth. I didn't do any begging or anything. He said that he looked for me earlier but I wasn't on and what did I do all day. So, this is where I blew it....I asked him when he was planning to get some more of his stuff (errrr)he said next week while I was at work so it would be easier on both of us. I asked about lawyers and he didn't know why we needed any. He says they just create anger and stuff. So later in the IM conversation he asks me if I wanted to play an on line game. So we do for about 45 minutes. We were still chatting and joking around. Thank goodness he couldn't see that I was in tears. I have done a lot of reading...so I say, I hope we can be still be friends after all of this and that we were probably meant to be friends instead of married. He says,y do you say that? I don't respond. Then we chat about nothing for a few minutes. Now back up a few days, in one of my begging letters that I e mailed him, I ended by saying hell we might even bump into each other in Vegas and fall in love all over again and start over. I could still slap myself for that letter. So back to last night, we end the converstation and he says goodnight "Cookie" (pet name) and says....maybe we will bump into each other Vegas sometime and start over. Why the mixed messages??????? I walk away from the computer. he signs off, then back on and im's me again about 5 minutes later and says r u there? waits a few minutes, then says, OK then....have a good night.
Am I getting my hopes up over nothing? I have made no contact today and I believe he went camping
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Debbie_L
Pooh-Bah
Reged: 06/06/05
Posts: 2031
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I think you need to stop this kind of contact. It will do nothing but confuse and upset you. He is soothing his guilt by trying to be friends, but it will only mix you up right now. Stop any unnecessary contact for the time being. He is already gone (IMO), and this just strings you along. It's like pulling a bandage off slowly. It's better to just get it over with.
Good luck to you.
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verysad
newbie
Reged: 04/10/07
Posts: 31
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I agree. I woke up last night about 3am mad as hell (finally) I got ready and went to work. I have not heard from him since Friday night. At 7:30am I get a text message from him saying, I hope you have a good day. Then 2 phone calls from him telling me about the collage shootings. Just when I am getting mad, I let him get me sad all over. errrrrr
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yregna
veteran
Reged: 07/25/06
Posts: 1265
Loc: Oregon
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Let us hope he uses you a few more times, then flushes the "relationship" where it belongs...
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"Anything free is worth what you pay for it..."
"Climate is what we expect, weather is what we get"
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verysad
newbie
Reged: 04/10/07
Posts: 31
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wow! Thats all I can say
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MominNY
member
Reged: 02/20/07
Posts: 131
Loc: New York
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yregna,
Let's hope that someone flushes you down the toilet.
Idiot.
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