Learner
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first of all, I understand it is divorce-related parenting board. In my case, it has nothing to do with divorce and everything to do with my own psychomom, who brainwashing my daughter (5 yo) (he granddaughter) against me.
Some background: I live in NY. Kid and psychomom live in Colo. I have full custody as per my divorce decree. Psychomom had power of attorney from me. Either way, I have a legal right to bring kid to my place to stay.
But HOW do I do it in practice? I asked sheriff about police protection, and they are ready to give it. However, the kid herself may resist - remember, she had been seriously brainwashed against me. I need her cooperation at least to some degree: to put her in a car, then to airplane, follow simple instructions, you know...
Any ideas? please help! Thanks
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MaFitz
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You can not stop what has already been done. You can stop it from being done further. Alienation is a very serious issue with children and the demonized parent. But the only way to stop it is to end it. Go get your daughter and prepare yourself for the worse.
When you get back home with your daughter you will have time to prove you are not the monster that she was told you were.
I hate that the system is taking so long to see just how serious parental alienation is, but you have what a lot of parents do not have, you have the ability to put a stop to it with that order of custody. Get that power of attorney revoked too.
Good luck to you and your daughter.
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Susanf31
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How is it that your mother has custody of your daughter in a state different than yours when you have sole custody.
How did that happen?
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Debi
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Is there a neutral party who can go with the police to pick her up and meet you in another neutral place? That might aleviate some of the stress on both you and your daughter.
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Learner
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OK, (bad) development: police changed their mind - they now refused to help, because my divorce decree is "too old", and because it states that Colorado is the kid's home. So what am I doing? hiring a lawyer. Now dau may not make it here in time to start school  She may even altogether lose admission to some better school I got her in
oh, and now I am no longer allowed to talk to the kid on phone even. PsM says I make kid "sad". By telling her I am not really "sick head"? Ugh! I need it resolved FAST.
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Buckeye
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Seems like I have heard this story before either from you or someone else...anybody else remember.
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mobyd
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Quote:
I have full custody as per my divorce decree. Psychomom had power of attorney from me. Either way, I have a legal right to bring kid to my place to stay.
You have sole custody? she has power of attorney over you? or yor daughter? Not sure I follow you here. Also by Pshycomom, is it your mom or your childs mom?
Seems to me if you do in fact have full custody, take your court orders and go pick her up. If your psycomom gets in the way, then call the cops.
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