Kitryana
journeyman
Reged: 09/27/05
Posts: 80
Loc: Lexington KY
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My exhusband's mother has continually disregarded mine and his requests for her not to discuss my 5 yr olds educational siutation with the school. We believe the conversations should be between the school, myself and my ex. She has continued to do so regardlesss. I told my exhusband to contact the school over a month ago but instead he took it up with his mother only. She has still continued to speak with the teacher when/if the teacher calls. Does she have a right to do this!?! A couple of years back she even took my son to get tested for allergies (3 yrs old) when both me and my ex specifically said we were NOT going to due to his pediatrician saying she didn't think he had any.
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Rebecca5
Carpal \'Tunnel
Reged: 06/02/05
Posts: 11697
Loc: Down home.
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The school should refrain from speaking with her. I would contact the school directly about their disclosure policy.
It sounds a little like your ex may be telling you one thing and then allowing her to do another. You can bet your arse that no one would be taking my child to the MD unless I agreed to it.
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Kitryana
journeyman
Reged: 09/27/05
Posts: 80
Loc: Lexington KY
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My ex had given her one of those forms giving her rights to take my son to the doctor due to my ex being too busy to take him to the appointment. I couldn't cause I lived in Alaska at the time and they live in Indiana. She took it upon herself to abuse the form apparently. I just think it's really sad she can't control herself to respect us as parents! Thanks for your input though. My son's teacher has been contacted via my ex (today being the first time he's contacted them..grrrrr..) so we'll see how it goes.
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Rebecca5
Carpal \'Tunnel
Reged: 06/02/05
Posts: 11697
Loc: Down home.
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Why is it that you move all over the place? Is it for work?
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Kitryana
journeyman
Reged: 09/27/05
Posts: 80
Loc: Lexington KY
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My husband works for the government. We have settled in Lexington KY though. His job now requires no moving or travel. I have threatened my husband with death should he mention, think or even remotely hint at moving again! *laugh* This move was the last one.
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bargranny
newbie
Reged: 02/12/07
Posts: 41
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It would sound like your ex mother in law is helping to raise this child, and maybe you should be grateful. For some reason he is living with the father, and not with you. If she is the one that has to take him to school, attend his plays, wipe his runny nose, potty train him, cook his meals, sit up with him when he is sick, then maybe she isn't overstepping her boundries. Somebody has to do it and you were in Alaska, not with the child. Not trying to make you mad, but if it is the grandmother the teacher sees all the time and not a parent, then who do you expect the teacher to talk to, the wall. That will certainly help little Johnnie. Teacher: Well wall Johnnie really shone today, we didn't have any problems..
Wall:
teacher: Well wall, I don't know what to do, Johnnie is falling behind and I know something is wrong but I can't reach him. Wall, how do I help him.
Wall:
get the picture.
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