diamondeyes1978
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It all started about december 2007. My husband gets a call from the ex asking for my email address. So my husband gives it to him. I get an email about christmas vacation about how they would like to switcg things around which was fine. Well, since then I have been getting emails from my ex's wife saying that they are from him,but I know when he works and the way he words things. The problem really started when they sent me there summer vacation plans which I was fine with. So I re: them ours and they email me back saying that I can't take them weeks because I will be taking 3 consecutive weeks. We both get and it is worded 2 consecutive weeks in the summer. I am the cp he is ncp. We decided last yr that which ever parent needed to could take 2 non-consecutive weeks. Well I chose to do this last yr and they said nothing. There recent responce to me telling them that I was able to do it last yr they said yeah we laughed at that that you thought you could do that ,but will not let it happen every yr. This yr I will be taking Aug 4-10, Aug 11-17 is my normall week with the boys, and then the other week is Aug 18-24. They said that That is 3 consecutive weeks and sent me the defintion of that word. Which I know that it is, but I can not help it that I am the cp. We are going on vacation from the 5-20. I have retained a lawyer ,because this is never ending.
There is more. My 7yr boy has accidents almost every night and my ex wanted to talk with the dr about this. Well I scheduled an appointment so that ex could take him and ex said that he had to work,but told me that I should talk to him about it. I email the ex about enuresis,but took him anyway. The dr gave me medication for it. I told the ex and they emailed back saying they will not be giving this medication to him because of the side effects and possible death in rear casses. I wasn't for talking with the dr about it the first place because my brother wet the bed until he was 12 yrs old. They emailed back saying that they are going to try different therapies and so shouldn't we. And that our 7yo said that the other kids in our house pick on him and that should stop. I told her because at this point she told me that she was emailing me that I agree no one should be picking on him and on one does and I told her that he shouldn't be yelled at for these accidents or be told that just because he has a pullup on doesn't mean he has to pee in it.My son told me this back in 2005. She emailed me back saying that it is pathetic that I have to quote something that happened 3 yrs ago and that has nothing to do with what is going on now. In my other email I also told her that I will not be responding to anymore emails I will only take calls or speak with thex in person. I don't feel that I should be harrassed every time I open my email. I have an inch thick of emails that she has emailed me. She said in her email that she has to parent these children because my ex and I can't communicate effectively. Which until she can into the picture we did and when I need to talk to him about something I will wait until she isn't around because he will talk to me. If she is there he has no voice. Just looking to hear what you guys think I should do.
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CiCi
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Reged: 03/28/07
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I'm sorry, but your e-mail makes absolutely no sense to me. It is absolutely impossible to track what you are trying to say here.
However, I felt that I should chime in on the bedwetting thing. My daughter had enuresis at age 5 and ended up having surgery at age 7. I would ask your doctor to either refer you to a pediactric urologist and perform a kidney reflux test. Often times, kids who have been previously potty trained don't just start wetting the bed for no reason...there is either a physical or psychological reason for it.
One other thing to really look into is how bad is he being picked on. And has he been possibly abused?
My daughter was prescribed medicine for the wetting also, and we tried her on it and the side effects were HORRIBLE! To this day (and she's 15), she still has some things stemming from that medication.
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