thisisverytough
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Hello all
Long story short rough divorce thus far, wife isn't letting me access/ communicate with her has been almost two months writing her as only real form of communication
Feeling like absolute S^&T , why are put in the middle?
well that was a dumb ? I know Y really. For daughter best things to do say she has to be extremely confused, scared?
Me I have never felt this down ever!
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Debi
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Is there a CO allowing you time with the child? If so document every time you are not allowed to see her. If you need to call the police to the meeting place and have a copy of the CO so they can document that you were there.If there isn't a CO yet then ask several times a week to spend time with her and document each time you are turned down. If you live in a one party recording state then record every phone call in which you ask, and record each message that you leave. If you don't then keep a notebook and jot down the date, time and a brief synopsis of the conversation. Keep the conversation simply about asking to see your child. Don't get sucked into an arguement about anything else. All of that will be in your favor and could end up with your stbx not getting custody in the end.
I know that advice doesn't help your situation "right now", but I don't think there is anything you can do to get immediate results. You'll have to rely on patience to get you through this tough time. No parent should have to "beg" to see their baby, but some people just don't care how they hurt their kids.
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When we were together, you said you'd die for me. Now, I think it's time you kept your promise.
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thisisverytough
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There is a CO for supervised visitation as insisted by wife or her counsel, but at the same time she hasn't scheduled her orientation to do what is required by her side. Is the best strategy to petition for unsupervised as there is no factual basis for this third party visitation need in the first place?
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Debi
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Yes, and point out that mother hasn't done her part to start the supervised visits in the xxxx amount of time since it was ordered. This is hurting your child more than anyone. She needs both parents in her life and as young as she is the sooner a regular schedule can be set up the less disruptive it will be to her. Do all the pushing you can. At this point it may seem exhausting to fight constantly with your STBX but change your perspective and think of it as fighting "for" your child. Not "against" her mother.
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