TGSM
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Reged: 02/06/05
Posts: 5843
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Well, we made it! My youngest SS is 18 today. It was a long journey to get him here, but he is becoming a fine young man. We had a nice dinner with a few of his friends and some cake/ice cream. Nothing too fancy, just a bbq with friends. He loved it...
It's hard to believe that all the years of child support and custody/visitation issues are finally over. It is such a relief my friends, I can't even tell you how much. We have been putting the CS received for SS in a savings account for the past six months (ever since I got promoted and two raises since Dec.) and we gave him a nice fat check tonight to get him started in college. He was shocked, because we didn't tell him we were doing it. LOL
So I am just kinda sittin' here basking in the glow of success. I know my SS is a better person for having lived with us and he will go far in life. Every sacrifice and heartache as well as every joy was worth it.
I am looking forward to life without teenage angst for a while. My son is only 9, so I figure I have a few years before the drama starts back up. LOL
-------------------- Faith-a f*rm belief in something for which there is no proof...complete trust.~Merriam Webster
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matilda
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Reged: 11/11/04
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Congrats!!! I am happy that life is treating you better these days. You definitely deserve some peace and happiness. Just knock on wood to make sure you don't jinx it.:)
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Loretta
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Reged: 06/02/05
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That is so exciting!!! I had my own trouble with my daughter that nearly gave me a nervous breakdown...now I am at a point where I enjoy her! Yay! But sadly I still have the stress with SD and I see no end...ever...to that. I envy you for not only surviving, but surviving well!!!
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Rebecca5
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Reged: 06/02/05
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Loc: Down home.
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What a nice thing to do. :) Congratulations on a job well done!
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rocketgirl
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Reged: 06/24/04
Posts: 8562
Loc: On the beach in 14 years...
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Great job.. and YAY.. you're done with BM!!!!!!!!!!
-------------------- Lisa
Diplomacy - the art of telling someone to go to hell, and them looking forward to the trip.
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cincsu
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Reged: 06/02/05
Posts: 4686
Loc: residence in AZ, case in CA
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yes, congrats to TGSM and i can't wait to be done with BM either!!! if you survived all the years without killing her (kidding) you've got a great accomplishment under your belt! LOL
-------------------- wife of 1, mother of 2, stepmother of .3475902453
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jsp
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Reged: 09/30/05
Posts: 4197
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Congrat's! My husband's youngest graduated this month and we are waiting till he turns 18 in September. I'm jealous your're done before us!
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