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MTmom
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x mil is backing sm
      #419901 - 06/26/08 12:02 PM

X is really upset. his mother is backing his wife instead of him this time around.

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arvm
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Re: Wow [Re: MTmom]
      #419924 - 06/26/08 12:27 PM

What does MIL know that X hasn't shared with you? It must be a doozy for a mom to choose the DIL over her own son.

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Re: Wow [Re: arvm]
      #419925 - 06/26/08 12:28 PM

My family all chose Ex over me. So, it doesn't have to be much of anything, really.

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Re: Wow [Re: youngatheart]
      #419932 - 06/26/08 12:38 PM

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Edited by MTmom (06/26/08 05:03 PM)


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arvm
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Re: My Mom always asks me [Re: youngatheart]
      #419939 - 06/26/08 12:49 PM

what have I done to make a relationship work? What have I put into it? Urgh! Plus then, she likes to tell me what a b'tch I am only because I don't get all emotional and fall apart in difficult situations. My mom and I are on opposite ends of a spectrum. We rarely if ever agree on anything

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Re: My Mom always asks me [Re: arvm]
      #420159 - 06/26/08 04:30 PM

I hear you MT mom... I could only wish SM would leave XH so I could be in peace...selfish I know.

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Re: My Mom always asks me [Re: arvm]
      #420180 - 06/26/08 05:18 PM

People deal with emotional issues in different ways. She shouldn't hold you accountable for non-emotion, just because you didn't do it her way. If you're getting what
needs to be done, done, then keep doing it.

My dh gets really angry at me too because I don't get emotional about things. One of us has to keep a clear mind about things in order to function. What good would it do for the kids have two basketcases for parents?


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