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      #420534 - 06/27/08 10:25 AM

Before I ask the question and everyone thinks I've lost my mind, here's the latest:

SM and xmil have told most all of my friends and family that SM is leaving X because he and I have been having a secret affair. Of course she's telling everyone 'it doesn't mean anything' because deep down he still hates me.. but whatever - maybe that makes sense in her own mind, who knows. I'm having a pretty good laugh about it and for the most part everyone knows she's full of crap.

But it has me thinking. After everything you've been through with your x's - family court, lawyers, fighting, etc.. would you ever throw everything away to jump back into the sack w/ your Ex...

I asked this of my girlfriends last night.. most said He!! No!! But one said absolutely she would go to bed w/ her ex because he was great... would you?


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Re: Would you ever .... [Re: MTmom]
      #420535 - 06/27/08 10:26 AM

LMAO...HELL NO!!

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Re: Would you ever .... [Re: MTmom]
      #420544 - 06/27/08 10:29 AM

Nope, because I married better and LOOOONNNGGGER, the second time.

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Re: Would you ever .... [Re: MTmom]
      #420545 - 06/27/08 10:31 AM

Not me.

My sis and her 3rd ex got back together for a year, then split again.

My friend and her 1st (of 3) ex got back together 04/2007 and split by 05/2008.

It rarely works. It's the romantic ideas people get in their dreamy minds about reconciliation, see we made it after all, and all that happy horse shi+.

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Re: Would you ever .... [Re: MTmom]
      #420547 - 06/27/08 10:31 AM

I have had the opportunity on 3 different occassions to jump back in the sack with him and turned them all down, happily.

No.way.in.hail.

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Re: Would you ever .... [Re: MTmom]
      #420549 - 06/27/08 10:34 AM

HELL NO!

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Re: Would you ever .... [Re: MTmom]
      #420553 - 06/27/08 10:37 AM

We don't have the same issues as most. And we didn't go through the struggles that most did.

Yes, we've already slept together post split. For 6 weeks last summer.

Yes, we are both still attracted. We're still affectionate with each other. Yes, I think we could VERY easily fall back into sleeping with each other. We just can't live together.


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Re: Would you ever .... [Re: MTmom]
      #420562 - 06/27/08 10:47 AM

eeeeeeewwwwwwwwwwwwww.....

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Re: Would you ever .... [Re: preemiemom]
      #420563 - 06/27/08 10:50 AM

We're still affectionate with each other. Quote!!

Isn't that close to what Clinton said about Monica?

Oh , that 's right he didn't have sex.

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Re: Would you ever .... [Re: LeAnne]
      #420584 - 06/27/08 11:08 AM

We don't either. But we still hug. Exchange a kiss or two on holidays. We're not like heavy necking or anything, lol. But we still have genuine affection for each other and frankly, we're both still physically attracted to each other. Shoot me. Shoot him. At least I'm honest.

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