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BKH
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Wife is active duty adultry/pregnancy help?

#571903 - 08/29/09 02:30 PM

So back history to much is irrelevant, been married 2 1/2 years. She had cheated on me with 3 guys (1 w/ video proof, 1 got her pregnant).

She has filed for divorce, but is in Germany. She is getting medically discharged shortly due to she is pregnant with another soldiers baby (7 weeks).

I'm not really concerned about the other soldier. Pretty certain the military is unaware he is the father. She intends on divorcing me after she gets out, and I'm assuming marrying him.

Am I screwed? What should I do? Will the baby be assumed mine? I have not been in Germany in a year since the adultery was discovered.

She can not fast track the divorce, because the state I am in will not allow it if the spouse is pregnant. We were married in California, residing in FL. This factor into anything?

I am at my wits end and don't know what I should do. I cant really afford an attorney. :confused:

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Re: Wife is active duty adultry/pregnancy help?

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#571906 - 08/29/09 03:06 PM

You can dispute paternity and certainly should. Alot depends on what she does as far as naming the father on the birth certificate.

As an active duty spouse - you are entitled to a portion of her income until you divorce. Getting that will probably have her hightailing back to the US to get this over.

You will need an attorney - particularly with the paternity issue. I would start asking around what they will want for a retainer so you can start getting your affairs in order.

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