bobbigirl
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Married for 20 years. My X says he has to pay only until our 15 year old is 18. I have never had full time job because of living with Multiple Sclerosis for 18 years. I didn't research at the time because he pushed the paperwork thru 3 months after the loss of my Mother. I don't even remember signing paperwork. Does anyone know what rights I have? He got away with paying me very little. He was the one who cheated!
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Sherron
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"I have never had full time job because of living with Multiple Sclerosis for 18 years. " Are you receiving disability?
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Miranda
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Are you already divorced?
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1966Gal
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What paperwork have you already signed? Are you saying that you are already divorced?
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bobbigirl
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No I have not tried to get disability yet. I have just started getting back to feeling better from a bad bought with MS.
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bobbigirl
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Yes divorce was final Nov. 2007. The reason for my research now is because of the death of my mom. It took a good 2 years to come out of a deep depression before I even realized what he got away with. It just didn't matter then. I was mourning the unexpected death of my young 65 year old Mom. I didn't start thinking about the death of my 20 year marriage until just recently.
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googledad
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You're entitled to nothing 2 years after the divorce was finalized UNLESS spousal support was never addressed or it was and the amount owed was 0 ( leaving open the possibility of modification ) .
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Miranda
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[quote]You're entitled to nothing 2 years after the divorce was finalized UNLESS spousal support was never addressed or it was and the amount owed was 0 ( leaving open the possibility of modification ) . [/quote]
I don't think that is even a possibility. If it was not adressed it was not adressed. Wouldn't laches come into play too?
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googledad
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No , in MN spousal support may be reserved for consideration at a later time as circumstances change . If SS was specifically waived it's doubrful anything could be done .
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yregna
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Your ex is a genius, and you are a bum. Thank God he dumped your lazy A$$.
Why are all the women wanting alimony always disabled ? Every single one has some reason why she can't work, wtf ?
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