alrietto
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Every once-in-while the thoughts come back.
These are disturbing thoughts, the kind of thoughts which are extremely hard to believe. When I share these thoughts with other people they find them extremely hard to believe too.
I don’t blame them. I myself find the entire story extremely hard to believe.
It’s so hard for me to believe that after three years of living with me, of receiving from me, of sharing a life with me, she, Martha made false accusations of domestic violence against me in order to get in to a VAWA shelter and obtain legal status in the United States.
We shared a life together for three years. She repeatedly told me that she loved me. She repeatedly told me that she wanted to be my wife. She wrote thousands of emails telling me that she loves me, that she misses me, that she dreams of being my wife. After she made the false accusations of domestic violence against me it became obvious that all she wanted was immigration for herself and her sons.
I helped her with so many things. I helped her with her divorce, groceries, rides, gasoline, lawyers, her driver’s license, and medical care. Throughout the three years we lived together she would get sick again and again. Most of it was related to her stomach but I also paid for her cosmetic surgeries. I suppose the stomach issues came from the stress she was under. I suppose the stress came from the fact that she knew it was all a lie, a deception, a make believe. I know now the entire three years were a lie, that when she said she wanted to be my wife she only wanted the marriage certificate so that she could then file the false accusations of domestic violence against me and secure her legal status in the United States.
She knew about the Violence Against Women Act (VAWA). She knew that she could get to a VAWA shelter by merely claiming violence without proving anything at all. She knew that she needed to be married to a U.S. legal resident so that she could make a self-petition with the USCIS. She decided to do and say anything so that I would marry her.
In reality what she did is simple. She prostituted herself to me for three years. She lied to me and deceived me for three years up until the point that I agreed to marry her. As soon as I married her she immediately started destroying our relationship. She started abusing herself and her sons. Then she started provoking me.
I didn’t know what was going on. Her actions didn’t make sense to me at all. At some point she threatened me but we seemed to have agreed not to involve the authorities and to continue with her regular immigration proceedings.
But when she left on foot again and didn’t return that night, and the next day the police brought her back to the house, I knew there was something polled are ongoing on and I filed for divorce.
And what happened then the hunt was too incredible for my mind to believe. From what I thought was my lover and my wife and she turned it into my worst enemy. She literally turned into a devil. She called the police again. She said she would accuse me. She said there was nothing I could do about it. She demanded my SUV. She became the meanest person of ever seen.
I became attached to a person with an agenda. Her plan was simple. She would deceive me, seduce me, she would make me believe that she wanted to be my wife. She would say anything so that I would marry her but as soon as I did she would falsely accuse me of domestic violence and move to a VAWA shelter to make a self-petition for immigration to the U.S.
I became attached to a psychopath. Only a psychopath would come up with a plan like that.
VAWA supports psychopath women with a plan like that.
Isn’t that just so hard to believe?
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Ref: Martha Laura Granados DOB 11-14-1966 bellia66 Marhta Granados
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Yes_Dad
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Something tells me you were not the only one, but the only one who fell for it
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BeachBabeRN
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Ya think?
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finz
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He's like a broken record.....
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Yes_Dad
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[quote]He's like a broken record..... [/quote]
Pretty sure Beach was agreeing with me
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finz
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Pretty sure I was referring to alrieto
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alrietto
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....Just writing down my thoughts.
Thanks for reading.
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almostheaven
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ROFL! He actually thinks anyone read that garbage. ;-)
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amazing
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Abusers normally play the blame game. It sounds like thats what you are doing!
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finz
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[quote]
....Just writing down my thoughts.
Thanks for reading. [/quote]
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Dude,
Print your address. I'll send you a journal.
No one here wants to read your diary
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