alrietto
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Why am I recovering from Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) for the past year and a half?
Why did the woman that I had helped for three years, make the false accusations of domestic violence against me?
Why did an immigrant women from Mexico pretend to love me and to want to be my wife for three years, and at the same time plan to make false accusations of domestic violence against me and get to a domestic violence shelter?
Why did she as soon as we got married immediately start to destroy our relationship, if there had ever been a relationship?
Why did an immigrant woman from Mexico seduce me, deceive me and abuse me for three years?
Why did an immigrant woman from Mexico prostitute herself to me and abuse herself and her sons for three years?
The answer to all of those questions is easy:
There is a law in this country called the Violence Against Women Act (VAWA). Under this law a woman can simply claim that she is a domestic violence victim and she gets all the help she needs: Housing, Legal, Psychological, Medical, Employment and Immigration papers to stay in this country…
She doesn’t have to present any proof and she get rewarded for making false accusations.
This law was made to help women, to save women, to give women a better life. How come this same law destroys families and destroys innocent man?
How come this same law incites women to make false accusations against their innocent husbands?
How can an innocent man who’s been falsely accused as a result of this law, ever regain trust in the government of this country?
How can an innocent man who’s been falsely accused as a result of this law ever get married again?
How can it be possible that there is a Federal law in this country that destroys innocent citizens in this way?
How can it be possible that they haven’t fixed this law yet?
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Ref: Martha Laura Granados DOB 11-14-1966 bellia66 Marhta Granados
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english7
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How can it be possible that you can't jump off this bandwagon?
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alrietto
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Peter: The thing that's hard to accept is that some people really have no morals or ethics. The only guiding principle is, 'whatever I need is right, no matter what the effect is on someone else'.
The really frustrating thing about your situation is that you were the one who was sincere about trying to create a home and loving someone who had supposedly been abused previously. But the irony is that you get painted as exactly the opposite.
This is something that was done to you that you didn't deserve. Unscrupulous people can ruin your life -- IF YOU LET THEM. But you don't have to let them. Your first priority is to figure out how to not let this affect you going forward.
These situations stick in your mind, making it very hard to move on. That's why I suggested some counseling. Without that it's very easy just to go around and around and around thinking about something like this. It is very hard to get through something like this just by thinking about it on your own.
Remember that in spite of everything that happened, YOU are the good guy. You didn't make up a bunch of lies to get back at her. She is to be pitied because she has no moral compass and took a cowardly and dishonest path to get what she wanted.
She is the one who took the low road. That is very sad for her, and she will have to live with herself, knowing what she's done.
YOU still have your integrity and sense of what's right. This may sound ironic, but YOU are actually the WINNER in this situation because you are still YOU. Nobody can take away your honesty and integrity.
You did what was right. You know it, and your friends know it. And, if you believe in God, well, God also knows it.
Me: Yes! I am the good guy. She is a very sick woman and she is to be pitied. What she did was dishonest, cowardly and demonstrated a complete lack of integrity. She proved that she is the psychopath that she really is.
She did take the low road. I had never met someone who could go so low. I know that what I did was right. And yes, I am the winner.
I know that all I wanted to do is help her and her sons. I know that in return she paid me with pain and suffering. But not everybody believed her. The judge didn’t believe her. My lawyer who was a woman was on to her from the very first moment.
Despite the fact that I am the winner what she did really did hurt me. It hurt me a lot. It made me very sick. It made me sick for a very long time and still recovering. It is incredible how Laura Mora from the shelter took her side. I guess this is because the love of money is the root of all evil.
I had never seen so much evil before.
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Ref: Martha Laura Granados DOB 11-14-1966 bellia66 Marhta Granados
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alrietto
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From a Deserving Woman to a Psychopath Prostitute.
The Mexican woman that I once thought was a respected mother, an innocent victim and a deserving woman has now been reduced to a criminal, a parasite, a narcissist and a psychopath prostitute.
When I met her in 2005 I had no reason to doubt her. She said she was a victim of her first husband. She said she was struggling to raise her three sons. She told me about her miserable life experience.
She said she was looking to start a new life. She said she was looking to start a new family. She said she was looking for a husband and a partner for the rest her life. I had no reason to doubt her. I felt sorry for her and I wanted to help.
But today nearly five years later the terrible truth has surfaced. The appalling truth that since even before we met she had a plan, a plan that only a psychopath prostitute would have.
She would move in with me, she would seduce me and have sex with me daily, she would constantly say that she loved me and that she wanted to be my wife. But as soon as I would marry her she would make false accusations of domestic violence against me in order to move to a VAWA shelter and file her self-petition and secure her Green Card.
I lost three years of my life because of a psychopath prostitute. I became very sick because of her. Any person would get sick from such an experience and so did I.
I once thought she was a deserving woman, an innocent victim and a respected mother.
Now I know better.
She has been reduced to a lowly criminal, a parasite, a thief, a psychopath and an immigration prostitute.
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finz
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I can assure you that you ARE NOT RECOVERING from PTSD
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alrietto
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How can you be so sure?
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finz
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If you were in the process of recovery, you would be putting this behind you and trying to move on. You are CLEARLY not willing to move beyond victim mode at this time.
You need help that cannot be provided here.
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alrietto
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Writing about it helps process this terrible experience and let go of it.
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Sherron
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"let go of it"
Feel free to start that letting go part of it any time now.
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finz
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What recovery process advises people to rehash the same crap over and over and over again ? Boring the crap out of everyone who might have cared at all about helping ?
Naming the ex in every thread so she will see her name if she googles it does nothing to bring quality content to this forum.
Come back when you actually grow a set and are ready to move on.........
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