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Myfantastic4
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Need some advice....

#672 - 07/10/04 02:56 PM

ok.... I will try to make this brief. ok I have this problem with my ex husband's girlfriend. She is ALWAYS trying to interfer with my contact with my children Ages 12 and 9. The most recent thing that she did was have the phone disconnected so that I couldn't have contact with the children. She will have that number disconnected and I am sure that she went and had the number changed. Up until this point she wasn't allowing the children to call me or have contact with me and my ex husband was also doing the same thing. They would say to the kids if Mommy wants to talk to you then she will call. So even if they wanted to talk to me they weren't allowed to call me. So it got to the point that I would have to call them. I would talk to them just about everyday and I guess that she didn't like this because she would make comments that they (children) didn't need to talk to me everyday. I say that she is interferring with my parental rights? Am I wrong with this or should I just take it up in court with my ex? We dont go to court until the 10th of next month so this would mean that I have NO way to get in touch with my kids until then unless I just drive over there and then I am sure that would start a whole new issue.

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Gecko
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Re: Need some advice....

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#673 - 07/10/04 03:02 PM

If you have a current order from the court that allows your telephonic contact, then I would file an OSC (order to show cause) with the courts. Just because you already have a court date for one thing, does not prohibit you from bringing up other "issues".

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Myfantastic4
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Re: Need some advice....

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#674 - 07/10/04 03:07 PM

Thank you for your advise. Right now there is NO order in place and that is what we are going to court for next month for because I filed for partical custody and visition with the kids because of the problems that have been going on. But being that she is NOT a parent of the children isnt she interferring in some way of me having contact with the kids by doing these things? I do not want to have to wait for a month before I can have contact with the children. It not only will be hard on me but I am thinking about the children. They are with me more then they are with their father at this point in time. When I finally take them back home then there is NO way that I can contact them to pick them up again. And his girlfriend has this BAD habit of calling the police on me all the time. I do not want me to just show up over there because of the fact is that I can not get in contact with them to pick them up and her start calling the police about it. Is there ANYTHING that I can do?

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paiselyblue
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Re: Need some advice....

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#1498 - 08/17/04 08:44 AM

So, you don't currently have visitation with your children?

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Myfantastic4
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#1520 - 08/17/04 03:46 PM

No I have visitation with the children. We went to court on the 10th of the month and I got the 1st, 2nd and 4th weekend of the month plus additional days during the week. So at this point I have the children more then thier father does.

There is just some other issues that I have to deal with as far as the live in girlfriend of my ex husband. I will post that in another posting

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whateverwhenever
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Re: Need some advice....

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#560543 - 07/29/09 02:51 PM

Where we at with all this?

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