jenny76
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when i married my husband he was 12 yrs older i was a virgin with no debts no secrets. ive had chronic migraines since age 7 but i have always tried to work a year after we were married my migraimes got worse i had to stop workin boy did he get mad because he never told me je owed 10,000 to irs and 50,000.00 to other loans! So i was able to get unemploymemt but that wasnt enough since my credit was clean he had me start getting out credit card over credit card saying hed pay for it. Sure we ended up having to file chapyer 13. meanwhile everytime i got a migraine he would yell n cuss at me and tell me what a burden i was. He hated to kiss me or hug me in the 2 years we were together he touched me only 3 times! whenever i got sik he would sennd me to my mas he would also make them pay for my cellphone and medical treatment it said it was there reponsibilty. I know black out loose my speach n cant walk due to migraines getting worse. Instead of being by my side he told me to go freak myself n left. i found he never paid any co pays for hospital or ems he cleared out the bank account i know he has. No money for a divorce as i dont but can i get orders for spousal support of somekind. Any info u can give me will be greatly appreciated. Thank u :confused:
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Maury
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I am not sure I understand your post. The fact that you were a virgin or he was 12 years older means nothing. I assume you were an adult without restrictions on competence when you married.
You married and your finances went to pot. That happens.
You had medical problems from a young age that impeded your employment. That did not change with marriage. The marriage was short - 2 years. How has your position changed since the time before you were married?
You do not receive spousal support simply because you marry. You are in the same position you were before you married. In other words, spousal support on a short term marriage seems unlikely. If your medical condition precludes you from working, you may seek SSDI and be compensated based on your disability.
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yregna
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So you married a man and wanted him to take care of you like you are a 12 year old child ? Was he supposed to care for you for the rest of his life ?
Weren't you ever going to earn your own money ? Did you want remain a child forever ? But get a man's money, was that the plan ?
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hanzblinx
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you sound like you are a minor. Perhaps if you are under 18 you can get child support from your daddy. If you are over 18 get a life. Grow up. You are not a baby. He touched you 3 times and you want spousal support? So for each time he touches you you charge 10 grand? I dont get it. How expensive are you?
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connie60
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Reged: 08/27/10
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Jenny, I have a few questions??? Have you been separated 1 year? Have you spoken to an Attorney? You will have to go by the laws of your state. I am about to see a lawyer in SC and it will cost me $200 for a consultaion.
This is my third rodeo with divorce, and i have also been amotionally, and mentally abused, but im sure this wont hold up in court.
I am disabled, have been since before we got married. My dear, you really need advice from an attorney, and im sure someone could loan you the money.
I have heard so many bits and pieces about all of this, i want to find out the truth of what i will be able to do, and how i will survive in the future, as i am only 51 years old.
I understand your stress, as i am in the same boat. Please seek out legal advice, then you will know all of the facts and you will know where you stand.
Best of luck hun, i do feel for you!!!!
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