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mikegs
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Relationship after divorce

#690039 - 09/12/10 07:48 PM

So I had separated from my wife and about a month later I met another woman at a local kickboxing gym I was teaching at part time. So after shortly being separated and nicely on my way to a divorce here is this woman that pretty fulfilled my wants/needs that my wife didn't. She was "perfect", we dated for about 8 months then moved in together. After living together for five months I learned that she had no idea on how to communicate with a spouse. Every conversation was completely one sided. I had to resolve every issue we had. No the problem I'm having currently is that now we are no longer living together and we are barely hanging on. On day she wants to "work" on things the next its some lame story like I'm not sure I'm "right for you" type of nonsense. I'm still quite fond of this woman but I can't be kept in limbo wondering day to day if I should move on or keep trying to salvage what we had/have. I'm not by any stretch a conceited person but I have never had a problem meeting new people and slowly creeping up on 40 I'm a touch worried I'm gonna end up single and alone. What to do?!

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mikegs
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#691910 - 09/21/10 04:14 PM

60 veiws and not a single reply, great forum!

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DedicatedDad
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#691955 - 09/21/10 09:29 PM

You have no response as your worries sound like that of a 16 year old, and it's difficult to understand why a nearly 40 year old feels this way.

I'd say see a therapist and try to figure out your insecurities.

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1004SRS
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#691977 - 09/22/10 06:09 AM

Did you ever examine why you got divorced and why you needed to rush into a relationship so quickly?

Start there with a counselor......

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mickr7an
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#729678 - 02/07/11 04:23 AM

DedicatedDad, I think this kind of unhelpful response is unnecessary. I am new here and like many dealing with insecurities. Getting responses like yours would make me feel fearful of posting in the first place and the entire point of a forum is for us to be able to communicate. You are basically telling him to grow up. Not helpful.

Mikegs unfortunately i am new to this situation so i don't have any advice for you but best just to ignore the occasional insensitive person who may be dealing with their own insecurities.

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Michael Ryan
Irish photographer living in Shanghai, China.

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