kurlicat
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If we go in to modify child support can he also try to modify alimony? Financial situation has not changed for me since the divorce.
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Miranda
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Sure, he can counter with anything.
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kurlicat
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ok thanks!
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Maury
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The answer depends on your order. SOme spousal maintenance awards ccan be made non-modifiable with a waiver by both parties. In such a case, spousal support could not be modified at any time.
Additionally, some states have separate child support procedural systems where a child support Magistrate/Referee/Judge can hear only child support matters. The other party could file a motion, but it would be heard separately.
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kurlicat
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I'm not really that worried about it. I don't really get much. Not that I am ungrateful or anything.
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yregna
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If you receive alimony, you are holding a huge red flag over your head saying " I'm a user type of women, I'm looking for another man to pay my bills while I sit on my ass... "
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kurlicat
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Well...thanks for your opinion Yregna.
I do not sit on my ass. I work full time and go to school part time. Alimony was HIS idea not mine for whatever reason. Guess he felt guilty about his cheating ways.
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Maury
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Ignore Yregna. He is angry and cowardly and, as a result, gets jollies hiding behind a computer and typing silly misogynistic epithets. I imagine he was bullied as a child.
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BeckaLeigh
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Correct me if I am wrong, but you want to raise his child support but don't want him to be able to modify your alimony?
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kurlicat
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It was just a question for informational purposes. I did not say that I did not want him to be able to modify my alimony. I just did not know if he could or not.
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