MTGirl74
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Sherron
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"I divorced ex-H because of his abuse/controlling towards me." Why did you leave the state and leave the kids with such a parent?
"The C.O. reads that I am entitled to apply for Visitation (etc) when I reside in or near the State." You haven't had any parenting time in 3 years?
I'm glad you have an attorney to modify the co to give you parenting time now, but I'm wondering if the kids will feel like you don't care because that's kinda the pattern you're presenting here... moving out of state and leaving them behind, not appearing at the hearing to assure parenting time... how often have you seen your kids in the last 3 years?
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Renny
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" The C.O. reads that I am entitled to apply for Visitation (etc) when I reside in or near the State. I have an attorney and working on modifying my case."
This is what you should focus on and it's good you have an attorney working on it. There may be trouble ahead, but you are apparently stronger now.
I don't think the things you mention amount to PA. Just run of the mill controlling and poor parenting.
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Sherron
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"I know this is a very tough forum, I'm just looking for the chance that someone else here may understand what I'm going through and may be able to answer my questions."
Honestly... no, I don't quite understand what you're going through. To answer your question, no, what the CP is doing does not sound like parental alienation, but you may have contributed to any alienation by your own actions. What does your lawyer say about it, does he believe it is parental alienation?
Your parents lied to you, kidnapped you and the children and returned all of you to an abusive and controlling household, why are they even in the picture?
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gr8Dad
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He is not alienating you, he is protecting the children you abandoned until you can prove you are sticking around.
-------------------- Why give a "senior" discount, they have had plenty of time to raise the money...
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