shawnmc
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My daughters 9, 12 and 14 are living with their alcholic, satanic mother. My oldest is not seeing me b/c we got into a big fight 9 weeks ago. She went home and told her mother everything. The girls were raised in church and I have been and exceptional christian role model for them.. now they have half naked posters of Usher in their rooms, listen to secular music. I'm so afraid they are going down the wrong path with their mother's approval. What do you think I should do..
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ljnsy
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<<<My daughters 9, 12 and 14 are living with their alcholic, satanic mother.>>>
--->First of all, what makes you think their mother is an alcoholic? (Not jumping on you, I just want to know what ther reasons are that you think she is.) Also, what makes her "satanic"?
<<<My oldest is not seeing me b/c we got into a big fight 9 weeks ago. She went home and told her mother everything.>>>
--->What was the fight about exactly?
<<<The girls were raised in church and I have been and exceptional christian role model for them.. now they have half naked posters of Usher in their rooms, listen to secular music.>>>
--->What's wrong with secular music? Does EVERYTHING have to revolve around religion?
<<<I'm so afraid they are going down the wrong path with their mother's approval. What do you think I should do..>>>
--->I think you should find out how your daughter feels about you and why..and I think you should allow your daughters to be themselves. You can't MAKE them be who you want them to be. Some counceling couln't hurt either.
Edited: Oh, and Usher is VERY mild compared to other music that's out there. What is half naked to you? No shirt? Do your girls ever go to the beach?
Edited by ljnsy (04/07/06 08:16 AM)
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Buckeye
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Quit posting on every thread in the hopes of getting someone to agree with you. It is annoying to say the least. You are getting replies - you just don't want to hear what they have to say.
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shawnmc
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to ljnsy:
Thanks for the questions instead of just rude comments.
1. Mother used to party all the time. My kids say she drinks wine sometimes. I've never caught her drunk but would like to.
2. Satan is obviously working in heart or she would never had filed for divorce.
3..My life is completely surrounded by Christ and I want that for my kids. How wrong is that?
4. Yes, Usher does have his shirt off and his pants show his pelvis bones, very sexually suggestive. Of course, they go to the beach but when they are with me one piece suits only. Of course, their mother buys them bikinis.
I'm still trying to get my oldest to come over this weekend I told her if she wants to home to mom all she has to do is call. She said she didn't trust me. I do admit that I don't like them calling their mother when they are visiting. My youngest secretly called her and said I was being mean. So x comes over and the daughter runs out of the house. I had to call the sheriff on that one!
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shawnmc
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Buckeye, I's just trying to get a little help here. Obviously, you people don't like my approach on Christianity and how I want to impose this on my kids. My wife acused me of being a control freak (she wasn't understanding the "wives are to be submissive to their husbands). I think that is why she left me. Well some of them. She is such a witch that she had my wages attached. If that's not satan behind her I don't know what is.
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gr8Dad
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First, you need to understand that you can only control what happens at YOUR house. That is IT. Second, the Lord teaches us NOT to scorn or send away those that are considered sinners, but to embrace them, and, through TEACHING (not force), help them to see the light.
Bottom line is that seeing one's PELVIS bones is NOT suggestive, any more than seeing the outline of a breast is suggestive. Yes, you CAN enforce the one piece swimsuit at your home, but you cannot force Mom to do so. Accept that, and you will find MUCH inner piece.
Jesus hung out amongst the sinners. Your kids ARE going to come into contact with sinners (ESPECIALLY with what YOU consider to be sin), teach them to resist, not cast off.
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Why give a "senior" discount, they have had plenty of time to raise the money...
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gr8Dad
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....manage to find a way to make her "submissive", write it down, and we will publish a book, and make MILLIONS. You can donate your half to charity, as for ME, TITTIES AND BEER!
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Why give a "senior" discount, they have had plenty of time to raise the money...
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Renee
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OMG !!! >;o }
ROTFLMAO -- I knew you had a sense of humor but JESUS....
WTG Gr8dad !!
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gr8Dad
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...would NEVER let me HAVE titties and beer, but I figure if I wrote the BOOK, I could MAKE her let me, LOL.
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Why give a "senior" discount, they have had plenty of time to raise the money...
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Renee
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As long as the book makes enough millions to let her stay home, shop all day and eat bonbons...
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