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nrvouswrk
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Reged: 04/13/06
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Re: how to reach my girls

04/13/06 04:53 PM

Shawn, I am new to this site, and have been reading your posts for the last few days. Do you have a brother in California? If so, I think I use to be married to him. You appear to be doing the same thing to your 14 year old daughter that my ex is doing to my 14 year old son (minus the religious angle),with the exact same results. He also refuses to see his father. Here is the bottom line for you..We love who we love...You can't force your ex-wife and kids to love you if you have not given them reason to. Trying to control all aspects of their lives is the surest way to make sure they don't. In addition to regulating the music they listen to, do you also censor their reading material and television shows? Have you ever considered joining a group process class that deals with parenting and divorce to get some added insight as to why your family might possibly feel the way they do about you? You just might discover that if you back off, the kids might want to be around you again. I am curious...what is the church you belong to?

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Here's one for you Shawn...

"Expectations will kill you..."

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how to reach my girls	shawnmc	04/06/06 08:15 PM
Re: how to reach my girls	Maury	04/07/06 03:52 PM
Re: how to reach my girls	Buckeye	04/07/06 04:00 PM
Re: how to reach my girls	Maury	04/07/06 04:05 PM
Re: how to reach my girls	shawnmc	04/07/06 05:37 PM
Re: how to reach my girls	Maury	04/07/06 09:57 PM
Re: how to reach my girls	F25Divorced	04/08/06 10:33 AM
Re: still not reaching	shawnmc	04/09/06 05:42 PM
Re: how to reach my girls	Buckeye	04/07/06 09:54 PM
Re: how to reach my girls	Tabitha	04/07/06 09:20 AM
Re: how to reach my girls	Buckeye	04/07/06 09:28 AM
Re: how to reach my girls	Lucy44	04/07/06 02:19 PM
Re: how to reach my girls	Buckeye	04/07/06 08:33 AM
Re: how to reach my girls	JennyLynn	04/07/06 08:46 AM
Re: how to reach my girls	Buckeye	04/07/06 08:57 AM
Not if I was the judge	Melody	04/06/06 08:33 PM
Re: how to reach my girls	Buckeye	04/06/06 08:24 PM
Re: how to reach my girls	shawnmc	04/06/06 08:43 PM
Re: how to reach my girls	youngatheart	04/09/06 05:48 PM
Re: how to reach my girls	Buckeye	04/06/06 08:48 PM
Re: how to reach my girls	shawnmc	04/06/06 08:57 PM
Re: how to reach my girls	kav	04/09/06 07:49 PM
Re: public school	shawnmc	04/09/06 08:03 PM
Re: public school	youngatheart	04/09/06 09:01 PM
Re: public school	shawnmc	04/09/06 09:09 PM
Re: public school	youngatheart	04/09/06 09:14 PM
Re: how to reach my girls	youngatheart	04/09/06 05:49 PM
Re: how to reach my girls	Maury	04/09/06 07:00 PM
Re: how to reach my girls	Buckeye	04/06/06 09:00 PM
Re: how to reach my girls	shawnmc	04/06/06 09:11 PM
Re: how to reach my girls	Buckeye	04/06/06 09:15 PM
Re: how to reach my girls	shawnmc	04/07/06 12:22 AM
Re: how to reach my girls	nrvouswrk	04/13/06 04:53 PM
Re: how to reach my girls	shawnmc	04/14/06 01:38 AM
Re: how to reach my girls	Maury	04/14/06 01:42 AM
Re: how to reach my girls	shawnmc	04/14/06 01:52 AM
Re: how to reach my girls	MamaKitty	04/14/06 01:24 PM
Re: how to reach my girls	okgirl25	04/14/06 05:24 PM
Re: how to reach my girls	shawnmc	04/15/06 12:19 AM
Shawn	KiwiGirl	04/29/06 09:36 AM
Re: Shawn	Angelmine	05/25/06 10:02 AM
Re: how to reach my girls	okgirl25	04/15/06 12:26 AM
Re: how to reach my girls	okgirl25	04/14/06 01:57 AM
Re: how to reach my girls	shawnmc	04/14/06 02:24 AM
Re: how to reach my girls	Maury	04/14/06 02:27 AM
Re: how to reach my girls	Maury	04/14/06 01:57 AM
Re: how to reach my girls	shawnmc	04/11/06 07:29 AM
Re: how to reach my girls	katiefedup	04/11/06 08:20 PM
Re: how to reach my girls	Maury	04/11/06 01:53 PM
Okay, I finally reached my limit......	BeachBabeRN	04/10/06 05:34 PM
Re: Okay, I finally reached my limit......	shawnmc	04/10/06 07:46 PM
Re: Okay, I finally reached my limit......	Maury	04/10/06 08:15 PM
Re: Okay, I finally reached my limit......	shawnmc	04/10/06 09:05 PM
Re: Okay, I finally reached my limit......	Maury	04/10/06 09:20 PM
Re: Okay, I finally reached my limit......	BeachBabeRN	04/11/06 06:21 PM
Re: Okay, I finally reached my limit......	Stacey1995	04/10/06 09:09 PM
Re: Okay, I finally reached my limit......	shawnmc	04/10/06 09:52 PM
Re: Okay, I finally reached my limit......	Maury	04/10/06 09:57 PM
Re: Okay, I finally reached my limit......	Buckeye	04/10/06 10:13 PM
Re: Okay, I finally reached my limit......	Stacey1995	04/10/06 10:14 PM
Re: Okay, I finally reached my limit......	shawnmc	04/10/06 09:58 PM
Re: Okay, I finally reached my limit......	Maury	04/10/06 10:04 PM
Re: Okay, I finally reached my limit......	Stacey1995	04/10/06 09:56 PM
Re: how to reach my girls	ljnsy	04/07/06 08:21 AM
Re: how to reach my girls	Buckeye	04/07/06 06:11 AM

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