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jesimonich
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Reged: 04/14/06
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Re: I disagree...

04/15/06 12:53 PM

I really appreciate your insite! I've been with him since I was 17. We married as soon as turned 18, and I am now 30. In the beginning I was really a little girl (although I would have never admitted it then). So I just grew up in our relationship letting him treat that way. We've had good times through the years. But lots of year felt like a soap opera! My backbone seems to have found me at 30 for some reason. He doesn't like me standing up for myself. He thinks I'm being bitchy. I probably am to some point. I know that he is a good person, and I like him a lot of the time. I've just disconnected now. And now every little thing turns into a huge fight. Like even where to order pizza. Last night he wanted to order from one place, and I said that I didn't want to because it is expensive, and the kids don't like it. So he took that as me instigating an arugment. It's just constant. We both view anything the other one says as an attack. My parents came to visit a month ago, and my son asked my dad if he yells at my mom, and if they fight. That made me feel really guilty and sad. And my 5 year old out of the blue started talking about divorce and who she would want to live with in the car yesterday. That was very random and out of the blue, as neither of us have uttered the word around them. We usually have those fights over instant messenger so it's more "private" from the kids. So obviously we are both already having an influence on the kids. I think no matter which direction I go, it won't be easy on any of the kids. I'm hoping that I can find a good counselor to help me weed through everything, and figure it out. Earlier in our marriage I was a very optimistic, positive person. It was just my nature. Especially since we moved away from my family, that has changed, and I don't like who I have become. I just want to find happiness again some day, whatever it may take to get there. I'm going to call about a counseling appointment on Monday. Thanks to you all for you support, I really appeciate it!!!

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Subject	Posted by	Posted on
On the fence . . . I need some help	jesimonich	04/14/06 01:58 PM
Re: On the fence . . . I need some help	Gecko	04/22/06 12:51 PM
Re: On the fence . . . I need some help	Tabitha	04/14/06 03:09 PM
Re: On the fence . . . I need some help	jesimonich	04/14/06 03:50 PM
Re: On the fence . . . I need some help	Tabitha	04/14/06 04:18 PM
I disagree...	almostheaven	04/14/06 04:32 PM
Re: I disagree...	spiritedone	04/22/06 08:49 AM
Re: I disagree...	jesimonich	04/15/06 12:53 PM
Re: I disagree...	CWL	04/14/06 05:51 PM
Re: I disagree...	Gecko	04/22/06 12:58 PM
Re: On the fence . . . I need some help	CWL	04/14/06 02:05 PM

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