boilerbrat2000
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Reged: 04/19/06
Posts: 10
Loc: Indiana,U.S.S.
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Re: Grandparents rights when your child won"t talk to
04/21/06 08:02 AM
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Yes, I went to see them.I HAVE attempted to call them, they don't answer my calls. I've sent letters,postcards, NO RESPONSE. And since you think there is more to this, here it is:Tristan has never been close to her family.Her mother died 2 years ago on Thanksgiving,and they had barely begun to speak then. Her father lives in AZ with a his wife that Tristan despises and makes no effort to hide that fact.SHE has taken B*#@h fits whenever anyone comes over unannounced, and takes it out on my son. He in turn then takes it out on me.She makes EVERYone call ahead before they come over, but has made it clear to other people that she doesn't want me around. This girl has a history of issues regarding anger management. She has threatened to run away, has mentioned that sometimes she wishes she could just put a blanket over the kids head and make them disappear,has called my son's grandmother(dad's dad) and screamed into the phone to "COME GET THESE DAMN KIDS!!! i CAN'T STAND THEM ANYMORE!" When her and my son have gotten into fights(which happens alot),she's told him on more than one occasion that she wanted him to take the kids, she would sign them over, and she never wanted to see any of them again. My son even called the police one day after receiving a call at work that she was "checking out".He flew home, and when the cops came, she acted like she didn't know what they were talking about.My son made an appt. with Family Services, and it is my understanding they went, but they have still had some "episodes" since then. I should also add that my son's father has NEVER had much to do with him at all, even though he lives a mere 1/8th of a mile from him,and has for years. My son is terrified his children will end up like he did...living without a father in their life, because she is always threatening she's going to leave the state. It is more HEARTS BELIEF that the reason Chris is NOT including me in his(their) life, is because he wants to keep peace and not get her "riled" again...even though he could still call me from work, and she'd never know......
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