rocketgirl
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Re: I don't agree with that...
05/07/06 08:33 AM
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Okay, let’s look at this again:
1.She went outside of the marriage (failing, I’ll give you that) and had an emotional affair. Most of the time this is as devastating to the other partner as a physical affair.
2.They “worked it out” but it never got better. To me, they worked nothing out. Just band-aided it for a while
3.She indicates that she does work part time, but still accepts money from him to live on every week.
4.He had to move out (I would have never done this if *I* were the one paying all the bills, but whatever)
5.They still have a sexual relationship. She’s afraid if she doesn’t put out he’ll find it elsewhere. Her money train ends at that point, so she gives it to him. What does that make her? A paid sexual companion.
6.It’s killing her that’s he’s moved out? She asked him to leave… but please, oh please pay my bills!
7. If she doesn't want to do yard work, then maybe she should hire someone to do it and let stbx pay for that also. I feel it is the least she can do as she is living there free.
I worked full time, went to school part time and I am raising my two boys with minimal support from my ex. She has 3 months of school left, then she has to find a job in an economy that is not that great right now. What is her major? Is it something that she can actually make a living on? I’m sure if she can’t, then she will continue to rely on him and his CS to pay her bills. And I know how everyone on here feels about a CP doing that, right? What makes her so different than anyone else on here who has a CP who does the same thing?
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Lisa
Diplomacy - the art of telling someone to go to hell, and them looking forward to the trip.
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