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Renee
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Re: In-law trouble......
      05/07/06 03:08 PM

Is there a specific reason they have an issue with you? Is it something you've been able to address with them to clear the air?

Your fiance is right about one thing: If he hasn't straightened them out the first 50x he's not likely to get thru to them anytime soon.

From what you're posting they're succeeding in wreaking havoc in your relationship with their son, because you keep letting them get to you. If you can't change their mind about you, and your fiance can't change their mind about you, work on something you can control - your reaction to them. Try to focus on your fiance and your family together, and try your best to put them in the category you reserve for nosy, belligerent, gossipy neighbors. You are in no position to make your fiance choose between you and his parents, and the more you focus on their idiocy the more pressure your F is going to feel to do just that.

Good luck Andrea, I really hope it works out for you.

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* In-law trouble...... AndreaF 05/06/06 03:01 AM
. * * Re: In-law trouble...... Maury   05/12/06 12:19 AM
. * * Re: In-law trouble...... F25Divorced   05/06/06 08:05 AM
. * * Re: In-law trouble...... AndreaF   05/07/06 12:24 PM
. * * Re: In-law trouble...... youngatheart   05/14/06 02:05 PM
. * * Re: In-law trouble...... INEEDSOMEHELP   09/27/11 12:19 PM
. * * Re: In-law trouble...... Renee   05/07/06 03:08 PM
. * * Re: In-law trouble...... AndreaF   05/07/06 03:50 PM
. * * Re: In-law trouble...... Debbie_L   05/09/06 12:45 PM
. * * Do they think Renee   05/13/06 12:11 AM
. * * Re: Do they think AndreaF   05/13/06 10:25 PM
. * * Re: Do they think Renee   05/14/06 09:59 PM
. * * Thank you guys. AndreaF   05/15/06 04:44 PM
. * * Re: Thank you guys. Debbie_L   05/16/06 05:52 PM

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