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Infidelity... A strange twist of events.
05/30/06 11:18 PM
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My wife and I have been married for 13 years have 2 children 6 and 12. 4 months ago she started to behave strange around me and also my neighbour who was a close friend and co-worker. We bought our place 7 years ago. And my neighbour been living there the same time. Well when I questioned her about what was going on she denied it and told me that I was imagining things. Finally we got into a fight and she asked me to leave. When I came back in the morn she told me that she loved me but was not in love anymore.
(Should have left here) about a month after I get a call from his wife asking what was going on with her husband and my wife. I had a feeling but nothing substantial. Finally my wife admitted to an emtional affair. And she wanted me back into her life.(First try lasted 2 days) After I calm her down and got her back on her feet.(Emotionally disturbed) She went right back at it. 2 weeks later she comes back asked again.(2nd try lasted 5 days) Then right back at it. 2 weeks goes by and she come back sobbing and saying final chance I screwed up, now its a emotional and physical affair(3rd try last 7days) This time she slept for 3 days almost straight exhausted emotionally. Finally I'm done. But again 2 weeks later she asked me back this time she wanted the marriage to work asked me back into the home.(4th time) Said it was done. She contacted a counsellor, read self help books with me. Brutally honest with everything I asked. Then 2 weeks into it she started to slow down. 3rd week I catch her with the tp in her van 10 min b4 counselling. She promised me no contact. Then 4 days later she tells me she's been talkin to him for 2 days now. Her conversations still continue. BTW I am being charge by the tp for assault(1 punch), uttering threats, mischief(car window). And he has 3 kids. Finally I tell her I have had enough you need to to end it or end our marriage. 2 days ago she said it over. But I still want you to stay in our home. I don't want you to move away. I promise I will only talk to him I will not see him or have any physical contact as long as you stay in the home. Today I left work early to go for a walk in the park 5 miles from home. I pull into the park and there she is with the tp cuddling by the lake. She has broken my trust. Now she wants to end our marriage. But she also wants me to stay wow. What the crap is going on in her head. Should I move back out?
Hurt and Confused....
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