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Reged: 06/02/04
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Re: Run or Stay

06/08/06 03:35 PM

What I recommend is that right now, before you do ANYTHING else, you research abusive partners. What I see...and anyone else sees if they have been in an abusive relationship, is first: you're in denial and second, you don't understand anything about the patterns of behavior with abusive partners.

I get that you think this is just the first time, that he has never done anything like this before...but that's how it ALWAYS starts. We ALL thought that! By allowing him in your life at all, you are saying "I accept and allow you to treat me this way". Guess what? He will continue to treat you this way, and everytime you stay, you are telling him he can continue his behavior. You knwo what happens then? It gets worse...the hits get harder, more often...What do you think all the questioning you is about? Another CLASSIC SIGN of an abuser!

YOU NEED HELP AND YOU NEED TO EDUCATE YOURSELF NOW! Stop thinking that me or anyone else that advises you to leave are 'over reacting' and that 'your situation is different'. We've all been there and thought that..okay? LISTEN TO ME! You deserve better, heck, my DOG deserves better!

Take off your blinders girl...YOU ARE IN DENIAL.

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Subject	Posted by	Posted on
Run or Stay	pearl33	06/08/06 01:13 PM
Re: Run or Stay	Buckeye	06/08/06 04:02 PM
Re: Run or Stay	hippie1981	06/08/06 02:34 PM
Re: Run or Stay	pearl33	06/08/06 02:46 PM
Hellllooooooooooo...	almostheaven	06/08/06 07:01 PM
Re: Run or Stay	hippie1981	06/08/06 03:06 PM
Re: Run or Stay	pearl33	06/08/06 03:18 PM
Re: Run or Stay	Spring	06/08/06 03:35 PM
Re: Run or Stay	pearl33	06/08/06 07:23 PM
Re: Run or Stay	Buckeye	06/08/06 08:03 PM
OMG	Renee	06/09/06 09:33 AM
Re: OMG	Buckeye	06/09/06 02:20 PM
Re: OMG	pearl33	06/09/06 06:27 PM
Re: OMG	Gecko	06/10/06 11:24 AM
Re: OMG	Spring	06/09/06 10:37 PM
Re: OMG	Renee	06/09/06 10:34 PM
Would you please....	almostheaven	06/09/06 10:13 PM
Re: OMG	rocketgirl	06/09/06 09:37 PM
Re: OMG	Buckeye	06/09/06 02:18 PM
Re: Run or Stay	Spring	06/09/06 03:54 AM
Re: Run or Stay	hippie1981	06/08/06 03:26 PM
Re: Run or Stay	Spring	06/08/06 03:39 PM
Re: Run or Stay	pearl33	06/13/06 06:57 AM
Re: Run or Stay	Spring	06/13/06 09:39 PM
Re: Run or Stay	Renee	06/13/06 11:34 AM
Exactly...	almostheaven	06/13/06 09:17 PM
Re: Exactly...	Renee	06/14/06 09:55 AM
Re: Run or Stay	pearl33	06/08/06 03:31 PM
Re: Run or Stay	ljnsy	06/08/06 02:13 PM

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