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nrvouswrk
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Re: Still trying to figure it all out!

06/23/06 12:15 PM

Hello James...I am so sorry for what you are going through. So many of us here have been exactly where you are now. The hard part isn't losing the spouse but the best friend. It will get better.

I don't want to appear unkind or insensitive, but part of the problem could be the neediness. It puts a lot of us off in a big way. My ex was like that and there were so many times I just wanted to scream at him "Be a man!!!"

As for the karma thing hitting her somewhere down the road, I will tell you what my very wise husband had told me (not that it is what I REALLY wanted to hear)... I too would spend a lot of time lamenting why the good Lord has not paid my ex (and also my mother) back for all the evil they have done. When was "what goes around, comes around" going to make it to them? What happens if I should die and not get to witness (OK I will admit it..enjoy their cum-up-ins)?

This is what he told me...That is why you have a heaven and hell to reward the good and punish the bad. If everything was taken care of on this planet, then you would not need those two places to exist.

Will Karma hit her? Probably not. If you are waiting around for that to happen, you might have a loooonnnggg wait. So give that thought up and move on. If there is a heaven and hell (which I would like to believe there is), then someone else will take care of the Karma issue for you.

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Subject	Posted by	Posted on
Still trying to figure it all out!	jamesjr	06/15/06 09:31 AM
Re: Still trying to figure it all out!	Jill	06/16/06 11:01 PM
Re: Still trying to figure it all out!	jamesjr	06/23/06 02:01 AM
Re: Still trying to figure it all out!	nrvouswrk	06/23/06 12:15 PM
yep, karma can be a beautiful thing	BB1	06/23/06 05:28 AM
Re: yep, karma can be a beautiful thing	Muad_Dib	06/25/06 11:18 PM
Re: yep, karma can be a beautiful thing	Maury	06/26/06 07:42 AM
Re: Still trying to figure it all out!	BB1	06/15/06 08:12 PM
It is called	KiwiGirl	06/15/06 10:16 PM
Re: Still trying to figure it all out!	jamesjr	06/15/06 10:08 PM
Re: Still trying to figure it all out!	BB1	06/16/06 05:12 AM
Re: Still trying to figure it all out!	jamesjr	06/16/06 09:20 AM
Re: Still trying to figure it all out!	BB1	06/16/06 04:31 PM
Re: Still trying to figure it all out!	Cassie	06/15/06 07:32 PM
Re: Still trying to figure it all out!	SteelersJR1	06/15/06 05:24 PM
Re: Still trying to figure it all out!	Buckeye	06/15/06 09:45 AM
Re: Still trying to figure it all out!	nrvouswrk	06/15/06 10:58 AM
Re: Still trying to figure it all out!	NancyD	06/15/06 12:02 PM
Re: Still trying to figure it all out!	nrvouswrk	06/15/06 12:12 PM
Re: Still trying to figure it all out!	jamesjr	06/15/06 02:14 PM
Re: Still trying to figure it all out!	Muad_Dib	06/16/06 10:25 PM
Re: Still trying to figure it all out!	Chris1	06/15/06 03:26 PM

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